How we handle unwanted manifestations plays a big role in the overall vibe we are throwing out there. In most cases, there is a very simple solution.
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Podcast #132: Law of Attraction: The Best Way to Deal with Most Negative Manifestations
Hi Kelli!!
Hope you’re well and having a great summer!!
I love this! Shake it off! So interesting, I’ve been working on doing just that. I realized that for many years – as we all do – a troubling situation would happen and I would dwell. So of course, I would make up a story about myself because of that situation, and then boom, any little trigger and I’m back at square one. Now, in looking at my manifestations as a “mirror” as you mentioned, it becomes easier to just say “oh well, that sucked, I’m pissed, sad, frustrated, etc.” But it’s ok, allow it for the moment, don’t judge it and know that part of is just a reflection of your thoughts/vibrations and it’s pretty much old news (got that from Abraham Hicks 🙂 ). For me shaking it off is such a relief. Love it!
Thanks as always for your wisdom! xo
Letty
Hi Letty
Nice to see you here with your always positive and encouraging words. It is nice when we can start seeing things as neutral vibrational feedback and nothing more. Like you said, the freaking stories our mind weaves about what is happening can drive us mad and make us feel trapped. I like what you said about it being a relief–that energy in particular is very powerful and I encourage anything that helps create it for people when they are feeling troubled by what is happening.
I love the reminder that Source is where manifestations come from rather than fixating on one particular avenue. I notice that when I have become too attached to my desire manifesting in a specific way, it not only cuts off all the other myriad possibilities but it chokes the one I’m too focused on as well. Due to your other podcast episodes I am conscious that if the journey doesn’t feel good the destination won’t either. I am now mindful to have a sense of openness, play, and trusting the Universe to orchestrate. There are also so many baby steps I can take on different aspects of my life that are unfolding that I never need to have an energy of waiting and can instead feel continually expansive. Thanks as always for your unique gifts and your lightwork, Kelli!
Hi Ruby
Thanks for your lovely comments as always. Detachment can be hard because it is so opposite to how our mind usually reacts and behaves, but it will never, ever be painful and it will never, ever work against us. We can certainly fight for our desire to control and focus on specifics, but at the end of the day, it is hard to argue with this probably being the better approach!
I needed to hear this! Thank you
Awesome Rosalyn! Thanks so much for your comment
Hi Kelli,
I don’t even remember how I found your webpage but, I’m glad I did.
I have been doing a good job on manifesting my desire (to move to south Jersey…yes, I said move to south Jersey LOL – I just happen to love it there)
– but then the “perfect” opportunity came along (so I thought), and I made a mistake and got attached. Wah-wahh-wahhhhhh. Wrong move.
If it weren’t for your inspiring words and guidance, I’d be stuck focusing on the job I didn’t get – instead though, I’m taking your advice from your e-book #2 and “Learn to trust the Universe and stop trying to control EVERY. FUCKING. THING.”. hahahah! You are so awesome! You always seem to say exactly what i need to hear.
I hope you continue to write e-books! I bought all of them on Amazon and love your style.
Thanks!
Hi Jay
Thanks so much for your message and I am so happy you enjoy my content so much. South Jersey has some really nice spots! I am a NJ girl myself. I always like to tell people…want specifics if it floats your boat, but detachment will never work against you in getting what you want! It’s okay to feel the disappointment of unmet expectations and opportunities that didn’t work out, but like I said in the podcast…the next move is to just shake it off!