COACHING

What I Do

In a nutshell, my coaching is all about helping you ‘attract’ what you ultimately want most, which is a true sense of well-being and emotional healing.  In my humble opinion, this is the only manifestation worth a damn. And contrary to what your mind tells you, this can start happening anytime, without anything in your life having to change first. Pretty great right? 

As a fellow human I understand that the vast majority of us will remain invested in this time/space reality to varying degrees, that we will want certain things, so long as we are here having this experience. So energetic/emotional ‘work’ as it relates to ‘manifestation’ specifically is something my content addresses plenty. 

But the private work I do with clients is designed for people who have reached a point where they can genuinely say their primary focus is internal, and their primary goal is to simply feel better.

They no longer want to travel the path where their inner work is solely in service of simply trying to attract things they don’t have, to change their outside world in ways their ego mind believes it must be.

The people best served by me recognize that part within themselves that still cares very deeply about getting certain things and what their external experience looks like, but is really sick of caring so much, and wants to find a better-feeling way to exist in this world of ‘form,’ where those attachments and worries may continue to exist to some degree. 

They have come to understand the emotional transformation is what they truly seek, and this has no choice but to affect their outside experience, so no need to put so much attention there constantly, since doing so creates a lot of tension and anxiety.

We’ll surely talk plenty about the money, the relationships and the like. But that a major part of our work together entails not figuring out how to get all these things, but rather exploring why they want them so badly is something with which they are very comfortable. This is the only way to stop operating from ‘pain-minimizing’ mode, and achieve that all important state of ‘detachment’ you hear so much about in these teachings.

Terms like ‘energy’ and ‘vibration’ are simply fancy words for ‘feelings,’ and tending to our emotional well-being is actually the only thing required of us to ‘manifest’ the things most humans typically want (and in a much easier way). You don’t need all this specific focus on whatever it is you seek. You don’t need to hold these ‘wants’ so dear and precious.

These sorts of realizations change the consciousness from which you operate. And this shift creates a much more harmonious, enjoyable and effective relationship with action, which proves to be a great source of tension for many people.

I guide you in creating meaningful, genuine shifts in your beliefs, emotional state and self-image that attune you to the glorious ‘vibe’ that already exists within. 

This journey within your mind uncovers the true roots of your negative feelings, which frees you from the delusion what you have, or don’t have, has anything to do with it. The resulting energetic shift transforms pain-fueled ‘needs’ into mere preferences, which are energetically ‘cleaner’ and easier to receive.

Your mind’s gross misunderstanding of how this all works makes you believe in a false choice between the pursuit of well-being, OR of your ‘stuff.’  Nothing could be further from the truth. Focusing within has no choice but to affect your external world. And you’ll enjoy what shows up a lot more when you are no longer expecting these things to fix all your internal issues. 

The direct validation you receive from a coach of your path, desires, and beliefs, chips away at the hugely problematic energy of doubt. This in fact may be coaching’s most powerful benefit of all, especially coaching of this nature.

My M.O.

My coaching is probably most closely related to spiritual counseling or therapy. It’s not for those looking for very specific tools and techniques, or a more structured approach to guide your inner work or external goals. There is no prescribed ‘formula,’  ‘process’ or specific set of actions I give to people. The assignments I give to clients are designed to help them more deeply explore the issues that come up in our sessions, and what is happening in their minds. 

I personally got really sick of all the ‘doing.’ I hated the pressure that came from believing if I wasn’t constantly engaged in some sort of routine, ritual or structured ‘work,’ my life wouldn’t change, nor would I. I realized we make personal growth way too action-oriented, thinking simply engaging in certain behaviors or ‘doing’ all the time guarantees some change within ourselves or lives–it doesn’t.  When I realized it wasn’t necessary, I was relieved. This is not to say there can’t be great value in more structured work–it certainly helped me at various times–but it just isn’t what I personally do with clients because all that ‘stuff’ was not what helped me most in my own journey. 

When I started genuinely focusing within, managing my ‘vibe’ in general (and not in the context of ‘manifesting’ specifically all the time) and facing my feelings, I experienced an awesome truth: All our ‘ego wants’ are natural byproducts of this emotional work. The deeper I went, the more seamlessly and effortlessly my outside world changed, with very little participation on my part. I liked that. 

I made a powerful realization that while the word ‘manifesting’ is a verb, it’s not an action. I came to see the term ‘conscious creation’ is kind of a misnomer–it’s really about receiving.

My aim is to support those who are ready to go more deeply within their minds by creating a safe space to talk about anything and everything they are thinking and feeling. This lightens their load emotionally, and creates space to more deeply internalize teachings that bring about radical shifts in their belief system and feeling state, which in turn will create significant changes in their life. 

The crux of all the ‘work’ we are doing boils down to nothing more than making a conscious choice about which thought system we will let guide our lives–the ‘ego thought system’ or what I like to call the ‘spirit thought system.’ The work I do with clients aids them in making this all-important choice more consistently and easily.

I help them see themselves for who they really are and of what they are truly capable. I help people understand how they can practically implement and live spiritual teachings that can seem very abstract and ‘far away.’

An Important Consideration

I have created loads of free content over the years, which gives people a very good sense of my perspectives and how I operate. So most who reach out to me for coaching do so knowing a lot about me and my work already. They know I can help them because I already have been, and the decision to work with me is an easy one made with confidence, whether for a single session or 12. 

 So while I think this page does a pretty good job of capturing my ‘essence,’ if you are someone who has stumbled upon my site because you have been specifically searching for a coach and you haven’t been following my work, it is very important to listen to some podcasts, read some posts and check out my ‘about me’ page. 

See if you feel that emotional/intuitive resonance with my work and my personality–that is the most important thing to take into account when considering a highly personalized resource such as coaching. Because my approach to ‘manifestation’ is very different than people may be accustomed to, being familiar with my work, and feeling a strong resonance with it, is important. 

The teachings that had the most profound effects on my ‘manifesting,’ were ones that had nothing to do with the ‘law of attraction’ specifically, with A Course in Miracles  playing a particularly prominent role. They were so helpful in terms of ‘energy work’ because they paved the way for very deep transformations in my beliefs, emotional state, and how I viewed the world and myself. And these shifts naturally had a significant impact on my life experience in every area, from finances to health to relationships.

 I personally find most manifesting-specific teachings very limiting in several respects, namely that there isn’t all that much to them. Most of them perpetuate the hugely problematic misconception that WE are the ones in charge…we’re really not and that’s a good thing. 

In some ways, I found them the least helpful for ‘manifesting.’ Go figure. 

Typical teachings are very clear about how you are supposed to think, feel and believe, but don’t provide much guidance on what needs to happen to accomplish this. They don’t account for the ‘reality’ of this process, which looks very different than ‘theory,’ due to our very faulty programming. This leaves a lot to be desired in terms of helping people actually understand, and make, the internal changes necessary to impact their life in any meaningful way. The goal of my teaching is to help fill in those gaps. 

Typical LOA teachings tend to keep us very externally focused, lead only to surface emotional changes, which only translate to surface changes in our life and don’t help us manifest what we ultimately want most. 

In my experience, the less I focused on ‘manifesting’ the easier it seemed to be!

Working Together

 
All sessions take place through Zoom and are recorded for your use only, unless you don’t want them to be. If you prefer just audio, or connecting to the Zoom session by phone, rather than video, that is fine.
 
Unless otherwise noted here, my calendar is open for sessions and accurately reflects my current availability.
 
Single Session: 60 Minutes. Unlimited email support for a week after your session. Link to book and pay is at the end of the page. 
 
If you decide to sign up for a call package right after doing a single session, you can count this first call as part of the series, and pay the difference for the remaining sessions if you would like.
 
Call Packages: Available in 4, 8 and 12 sessions. Pricing is below and all packages are paid in full.
 
 Calls are 60 minutes and take place weekly. There is unlimited email support between sessions, as well as for two weeks after your last call. You also receive personalized assignments between sessions designed to help you explore your mind more deeply, build on insights gained during our discussions, gain greater clarity, practically implement spiritual teachings, and more deeply internalize the ideas central to the healing and change you seek. 
 
If we have never connected before, and you are seriously considering working together for multiple sessions, booking a single call is a great way to help you decide if you would like to proceed with a call package. 
 
But I am happy to set up a 30-minute consultation call with people who are specifically looking to work with a coach for multiple sessions.
 
You will have the opportunity to share some background on what you are dealing with at the moment, ask any questions you have about working with me and see if my coaching is the resource that will best meet your needs at the moment. 
 
These calls are for serious inquiries about longer-term coaching and are designed for people who have a deep familiarity and resonance with my work, and are looking to start private coaching now. 
 
You can book the consult call here .
 
If you have any questions, or are someone who has worked with me previously–including free group and single calls I have done over time– and would like to set up a package, email me at kellicooper1102@gmail.com. I wouldn’t need to do any sort of consultation prior in these cases, but you are welcome to book one if you think it is necessary for any reason.
 

I travel extensively, and my coaching hours may change as my location does. Check my availability here to see if our schedules are compatible. I will be based in the US and Central America through at least the end of summer 2024.

Investment In You

If you have any questions. You can reach me at kellicooper1102@gmail.com

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