What I Do
In a nutshell, my coaching is all about helping you ‘attract’ what you ultimately want most, which is a true sense of well-being and emotional healing. In my humble opinion, this is the only manifestation worth a damn. And contrary to what your mind tells you, this can start happening anytime, without anything in your life having to change first. Pretty great right?
As a fellow human I understand that the vast majority of us will remain invested in this time/space reality to varying degrees, that we will want certain things, so long as we are here having this experience. So energetic/emotional ‘work’ as it relates to ‘manifestation’ specifically is something my content addresses plenty.
But the private work I do with clients is designed for people who have reached a point where they can genuinely say their primary focus is internal, and their primary goal is to simply feel better.
They no longer want to travel the path where their inner work is solely in service of simply trying to attract things they don’t have, to change their outside world in ways their ego mind believes it must be.
The people best served by me recognize that part within themselves that still cares very deeply about getting certain things and what their external experience looks like, but is really sick of caring so much, and wants to find a better-feeling way to exist in this world of ‘form,’ where those attachments and worries may continue to exist to some degree.
They have come to understand the emotional transformation is what they truly seek, and this has no choice but to affect their outside experience, so no need to put so much attention there constantly, since doing so creates a lot of tension and anxiety.
We’ll surely talk plenty about the money, the relationships and the like. But that a major part of our work together entails not figuring out how to get all these things, but rather exploring why they want them so badly is something with which they are very comfortable. This is the only way to stop operating from ‘pain-minimizing’ mode, and achieve that all important state of ‘detachment’ you hear so much about in these teachings.
Terms like ‘energy’ and ‘vibration’ are simply fancy words for ‘feelings,’ and tending to our emotional well-being is actually the only thing required of us to ‘manifest’ the things most humans typically want (and in a much easier way). You don’t need all this specific focus on whatever it is you seek. You don’t need to hold these ‘wants’ so dear and precious.
These sorts of realizations change the consciousness from which you operate. And this shift creates a much more harmonious, enjoyable and effective relationship with action, which proves to be a great source of tension for many people.
I guide you in creating meaningful, genuine shifts in your beliefs, emotional state and self-image that attune you to the glorious ‘vibe’ that already exists within.
This journey within your mind uncovers the true roots of your negative feelings, which frees you from the delusion what you have, or don’t have, has anything to do with it. The resulting energetic shift transforms pain-fueled ‘needs’ into mere preferences, which are energetically ‘cleaner’ and easier to receive.
Your mind’s gross misunderstanding of how this all works makes you believe in a false choice between the pursuit of well-being, OR of your ‘stuff.’ Nothing could be further from the truth. Focusing within has no choice but to affect your external world. And you’ll enjoy what shows up a lot more when you are no longer expecting these things to fix all your internal issues.
The direct validation you receive from a coach of your path, desires, and beliefs, chips away at the hugely problematic energy of doubt. This in fact may be coaching’s most powerful benefit of all, especially coaching of this nature.