How our mind goes about applying a teaching like the law of attraction usually isn’t going to work in our favor, and allow us to tap into our natural manifesting capabilities as quickly and easily as is possible. There is usually a learning curve, and today’s podcast discusses the most important lesson we must learn.
Podcast #85: Law of Attraction: Our Hardest and Most Important Lesson
Hi Kelli thanks for your blogs and podcasts. I am really struggling at the minute I am trying to manifest getting my ex back. I really messed up. Am trying to be positive and the majority of the time it is working. However I do keep getting a lot of resistance. I keep getting a lot of guilt from how badly I treated him. (I was pretty messed up at time) should I be going through this guilt or try to be positive and ignore it. I do feel this is really blocking me. I am finding it really hard to go with the flow at times and I hope to bump into him so he can see how much better I am. (Again creating resistance ) I would love your advice
Hi Louise
When it comes to manifesting what we want, and this is especially true of relationships, this journey will be a lot less painful if we are willing to detach from specific things and people. Ultimately you can’t control whether or not someone wants to be in a relationship with you. Maybe there is a future with your ex or maybe there is someone better for you–our mind often attaches to past relationships because it is something it already knows and experienced so convinces us it is the best representation of what we ultimately want, which is to be in a loving relationship and have the feelings we think that experience would give us. However you treated your ex was his manifestation, and you can apologize if you feel like you weren’t being your ‘best’ self, but how he feels about what happened is his choice. If he does come back into your life in any way, be open to what this manifestation means and what it is showing you. Vibrationally there is some match there, but it may not be because you are supposed to be back together with him. Just remember what you ultimately want–the love–and know it can happen. Just be open to who it comes through.