Fear of various kinds are often our biggest energetic ‘saboteur’ and where this work may lead you is a big one.
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Podcast #162: Law of Attraction: Do You Fear Where Your Energy Work Will Lead You?
Hi, Kelli
Thanks for this podcast. It is very timely for me. I am getting sidetracked and have practiced procrastination for a long time while truly wanting (and deserving) to achieve my goals and move to the next level. Fear is a powerful force. I also remember and keep reading about “staying focused on my goals” and reaching higher. It does benefit all and is totally worth it.
Hi Joyce
Thanks for your comment and I am glad you found it helpful and timely. Just go within and see what’s happening…if we are not going after things we consciously want and engaging in whatever we need to in order to reach these goals, feel better overall, align better on an energetic level, there is some negative association with this ‘wanted’ thing going on for sure or else we would not torture ourselves the way we do! Good luck!
I have noticed a definite fear recently as I am making dramatic changes personally in order to get my energy as positive as possible. Mostly it’s the reaction from my husband and friends that is getting to me, as I worry that they may not be a good match and fear that those relationships will be damaged or end. Is there a good way to keep myself going despite having to be around others that are not totally supportive?
Hi Stephanie
The most important thing to do is taking ownership of your feelings. Our mind is good at blaming our ‘troubles’ on other people’s negativity, criticism,etc…While of course it’s easier to move forward without this particular form of resistance cropping up all the time , most likely we’ll experience it to some degree. The most important thing to remember is their words and actions aren’t causing your feelings but triggering ones that were already there. When we take that ownership, we see where the ‘ick’ is really coming from and it helps protect our energy better, it makes it easier to change. Like I said in the podcast, the things you fear may not even come to pass. In your energetic work, you may find yourself aligning with different versions of these people and they are much more understanding of what you are doing, even maybe interested in learning more; as you deal with your own fears and the like, they won’t need to be mirrored back to you anymore in the form of the pushback. They may not change at all and it doesn’t bother you, and somehow you can all co-exist in peace. Or you may find that these relationships do change or end and that is never easy but you’ll get through it, and meet people who are better matches.
This is definitely a blog post that I needed to hear.
I find that I am moving ahead full steam and out of my comfort zones…and then get stuck and move backwards in a fear based insecurity. It’s like a what am I doing, do people like what I’m doing.
Perhaps it’s self sabotage fear of the new person I’m becoming.
Your thoughts. Thanks so much for your podcasts.
Hi Joanne
Glad you enjoyed the podcast and it was timely for you. I think a lot of people experience the moving forward and then shrinking back. Anything new is scary no matter how great it may seem ,no matter how much we want certain things. Just be with the fear…essentially dealing with it is like dealing with any other feeling. We can have it but not let it rule us. As long as you are always honest with what is happening inside you’ll be able to move past all your inner issues.