It would be great if there were these set, ummistakable signs, like a notification from the Cosmic FedEx your manifestation has left the facility and is now in transit, or your right pinky finger beginning to tingle from 8 to noon daily in the three days preceding the arrival of your stuff.
This post is courtesy of a question one of my very regular readers asked me in one of her comments.
She wanted to know about signs that what we want to manifest is on its way. Lots of good questions lately that were juicy enough to turn into a full-fledged blog post, so thanks for that question-askers!
The interesting thing about this question is on one hand the answer is quite simple, but on another a bit complex.
What we want can manifest in so many ways, and we can’t really know how it will exactly come to fruition.
What we have our sights set on may not be the best representation of our desire and something else not even on our radar is brewing in the background.
We don’t know when the perfect time is for something to manifest.
Our mind can really get in the way with this work, and it intellectualizes the process. We want to know the exact steps to do something, which is why we can get so hung up on techniques without realizing it is about how we feel.
It wants to know exactly what to look for so we know whether what we are doing is ‘working’ or not.
It is always on the look out for that ‘proof’ and a reason to feel better.
So, I may not be able to provide the type of answer we so crave, but what I can do is talk a bit about how to know you are on the right track, and that you are moving closer to what you want.
So, let’s get on with that shall we?
You’re Feeling Better
I know this may not be the most satisfying of answers but it is probably the biggest clue because we attract based on our primary feelings in the moment.
When we are feeling good, or at least better, most of the time, we are aligning with all the things we want that will make us feel those same good feelings.
I could end the post right here but I won’t.
In all seriousness though, our state of mind and how we are feeling determines everything. When you are able to start feeling better about getting what you want, that means the resistance is diminishing, the trust is building, the need to figure out ‘how’ is weakening, and that combo is the perfect recipe for manifestation.
You may not feel all lovey and in tune with the Universe every second and that’s fine, but when you really start to realize the importance of how we feel, you will have an easier time allowing yourself to do whatever it is that gives you those warm fuzzies, no matter how ‘frivolous’ or ‘silly’ it is, no matter how unrelated the activity is to your manifestation.
Remember you want whatever it is you want because you are after a particular type of feeling…if you are managing to create those feelings now, you are without a doubt lining up with all sorts of awesome stuff that will feel the same exact way.
The journey is what it is really all about, and the process of getting whatever it is we want should feel just as good as how we think we will feel when we get our ‘stuff.’ You really aren’t in the destination too long.
The key is being patient, not getting attached to specific outcomes, constantly ruminating on how you think what you want will come to you, and realizing that everything that happens is serving you and helping you get where you need to be, which brings me to my next little nugget…
Obstacles and All Manners of Crap are Coming Up
This is the part of the process that can really throw us for a loop and we really don’t like. We start doing all our little exercises to raise our energy, we have set our intentions and we are just waiting for everything to get more awesome.
So, when we start manifesting things we don’t like, we wonder what the hell is going on. We were loaded up with expectations of what the process was supposed to be like, and how our manifestation was going to come.
We know we shouldn’t do that, but we just can’t help it sometimes. Our mind just goes there. Happens to the best of us.
But, all this crap coming up is actually a sign of forward movement, so stop freaking out about it so much. It’s all good.
Sure, you may not be loving it in the moment, but if you can remember this, it will take the sting out a bit. You’ll see the ‘lessons’ more quickly, and be able to make the necessary shifts with less difficulty.
You are already on the path to what you want. The Universe knows what you want. You really can’t stop things, though we can certainly slow shit down.
You see, you have a whole bunch of resistance that you picked up from a variety of sources, from religion to television, and you really had no clue how freaking powerful you are.
All this crap was shaping your reality and now that you have ‘seen the light’ and have switched gears, it all needs to come up to get you where you really want to be.
All these ‘unwanted’ manifestations are not to mess with you, or random. They are there to help you see what still needs to be cleaned up. They are there to help you get on the path that will bring you what you want most easily.
Without them, you would have no clue as to where you were at vibrationally or what was still standing in your way, and manifesting what you want would be exponentially harder.
Some of these manifestations remove things from the equation that you may have difficulty removing yourself, like the job you hate but are too afraid to quit, or the shitty boyfriend who is totally dragging you down but are too afraid to break up with because it seems more tolerable than the alternative of being with no one.
It is kind of like if you wanted to make a finished basement in your house. Before you can make it this new, shiny, cozy space, you have to clear out all the junk that has been stored there over the years. And then you can fulfill the vision for your room.
The Stepping Stones
I talked about these stepping stones in my post the other day, but will do so again because it is a key component of answering this question.
And some people reading this may not have read that, and even if you did, you could probably use a reminder because we have a tendency to kind of poop on them or get all frustrated because the exact thing we want still hasn’t shown up.
And when we do that, we screw up our energy. We still have some of that good energy banked for sure, but again, we slow things down.
Often times, lining up with things we really want, or things we may have a lot of resistance around can be more of a process. We can’t just let the manifestation in full force in its full form.
Then there are the types of manifestations that naturally unfold over time. For example, if you just started a new business, you may not get 50 new customers your first week. You probably wouldn’t want that to happen anyway because it would feel overwhelming and you probably wouldn’t enjoy it too much.
Anyway..so, you will start to see manifestations that make you think what you want is actually possible.
You may start noticing certain things more that you didn’t notice before.
You are hoping to meet someone after a string of bad relationships, and more ‘nice guys’ seem to be coming into your orbit lately, which makes you feel like there is one for you out there.
You just started an online business, and you are meeting more people in your niche who are relaying their success stories, and it makes you feel success can happen for you too.
You are trying to get more freelancing work, and you are noticing an uptick in opportunities that seem like a good match for you. You may not want to apply to certain ones, or you may not be offered every one you get, but you realize the opportunities are there, and the right ones for you can come along.
The key with these types of manifestations is to realize the message they are sending. They show you are lining up with what you want.
They may not be big, exciting manifestations all the time, but that doesn’t diminish their importance, what they represent.
They represent something quite big, something to celebrate.
‘Almost’ Manifestations Where You Get to Make a Choice
Ah, the ‘almost’ manifestations. These can really start to mess with your mind. You set an intention to get something, and you attract a situation that is not quite what you wanted. It has some good points, but there are some elements that don’t sit quite well.
A job you would love with a salary you don’t love so much.
The guy who seems great, but is so busy with his work, you don’t see him nearly as much as you would like.
A great freelance opportunity but the client is a giant pain in the ass.
What’s a girl (or guy) to do? Is this the manifestation? Am I being too picky, greedy, choosy,etc..? Is my perspective screwed up and I should be trying to look at it in a more positive way?
These manifestations are popping up to show you have a choice. They can help you solidify exactly what it is you want, and if something doesn’t fit the bill…buh bye.
You are creating your reality, and as such, you get to decide whether something that pops in is something you want or something you don’t.
You get to be discerning.
There is never just one shot, or one opportunity. There are infinite.
When you start manifesting stuff like this, it shows you are moving closer for sure.
I remember several months back I was presented with an opportunity to produce content for a personal development website after having set some intentions I would like to attract that sort of work.
The pay was lower than I would normally work for, but I can write this stuff in my sleep, and the chance to expose myself to a larger audience was appealing.
I did a test article about law of attraction, and generally the feedback was good. In one part of my post I had noted about being able to attract all sorts of good things you want, and he said I should include examples of good things.
Really? People would need examples? I imagine most people know what the word ‘good’ means.
Something small, but it just didn’t sit right, and I got the sense that working with this person would be annoying, so I thanked him for the opportunity but said I didn’t think it was a good match.
When you are able to say no to these ‘almost’ manifestations you are sending a strong message about what you do want. That is some nice energy right there.
In Closing…
I hope that this post shed some light on how to tell you are moving towards what you want. I know it can be frustrating to not know what is happening behind the scenes and whether we are ‘close’ or not.
We are not fully trusting and we want some sign to help us get into that space. It’s normal.
But, we really can’t know all that is happening, and we can’t know when a manifestation is right on the doorstep, just waiting to walk through.
But, all of the above are sure-fire signs things are moving in the direction you want them to.
This underscores the importance of enjoying the journey, and finding ways to feel good now.
Lose yourself in the feel-good moments. Know your order has been placed, and it’s coming in some shape or form. It may look exactly like you picture it or it may be something completely different but feels just as good, or even better.
Your Turn…
What did you think of the post? Anything resonate with you in particular? Do you have any insights to add as far as signs what you want is coming? Do you have a hard time being patient, and what do you do to get back into that state of trust and allowing? Looking forward to your comments as always!
Hi, Kelli.
What a lovely question by your reader. It feels great when the reader’s question becomes a post, isn’t? And, you have answered her in a wonderful manner.
I can correlate with ‘Almost Manifestation’. We try to form a perfect image in our minds. But, in the end, we end with some imperfections. Many times, I have faced this kind of situations. I have realized that we must focus on our task only without looking out for the perfection.
Instead of coming out from ‘ifs’ and but’s situation, we must attract all the things which come in our way. They all have some meaning behind them.
Thanks Kelli for this lovely post.
Hi Yatin
I do love it when that happens. They get nice juicy answer and I don’t have to worry about coming up with a topic! I think anyone working consciously wiht their energy encounters those almost manifestations. Like you said, they have some meaning behind them. We are always moving towards what we want, we just have to remember that..which can be hard at times when we experience things that make it seem like we can’t.
Great thoughts, especially on unwanted manifestations. I had a big ol’ unwanted manifestation this past weekend. It hurt and I cried a lot and was very angry, but it was also somewhat of a relief. A very stressful situation finally became “unstuck.” I’ve bounced back pretty quickly and caught myself thinking the other day, “I don’t really care what happens, I just want to feel good so I’ll just do that.” EXACTLY!
Keep up the great writing!
Hi Melanie
So glad you liked the post. Your experience is a perfect example of the purpose these little buggers serve. It kind of sucked in the moment but it actually aided you in some way. You have a great attitude! Please keep me posted on how things are going.
Hi Kelli,
When I saw this post, it was a sign! Perfect timing..:)
Lately I’ve been noticing many signs, some really uncanny and inspiring, showing that the energy is lining up! I’m happy knowing that the universe is orchestrating some great things, and that I’m lining up with them.
It feels good and reaffirming to know that the path is unfolding, that I’m on the right path, the specifics are becoming clearer, etc. And I agree that the emotional manifestation is key…as well as knowing that our desires are virtually complete before fully manifesting into physical reality. It feels good to milk the signs and the good feelings, knowing that more are on their way and more excitement is to come!
Hi Christelle
I can feel the positive energy coming off your comment, so I sense you are aligned quite nicely and really celebrating all these signs. The Universe is always working to bring things together, and our puny little brains have no idea how it can pull the perfect resources. It is a pretty mind-boggling thing when you really think about what is happening. You certainly are on the right path, and when we come across information that validates that for us, it can infuse us with an extra dose of trust and positivity.
Thank you for writing a blog post on my question! This is exactly the kind of thing I wanted to read from you. It’s so important to read the signs when you start to figure out what you want and get in that groove because it can save you from that dreaded impatience and disappointment. I especially think it’s true that you have to realise that what you want most likely won’t fall in your lap immediately – you have to have stepping stones as you say. One step – get your head around that – then next step – get your head around that – and work your way up through your resistance. I had an almost manifestation about something the other day and it freaked me out a little bit! until I went home and tried to get my head around it and release a bit more resistance I had.
Speaking of clues, I mentioned earlier this week that I was freaking out a little because I haven’t yet got a job lined up after my current one finishes next week so I slapped myself around the head a bit (metaphorically speaking) and reminded myself to stay positive and line up with what I want, it might not come the way I am expecting it.
Well, the very next morning I was sitting at my desk and a colleague came up out of the blue and suggested an internal job for me that was a bit of a step up, and sent me a link to a jobs website that I didn’t know about. She had no reason to do this, she just came out with it. Also it made me feel good that she thought I could get a better job than the one I have. So that made my confidence soar and I feel good about attracting my next position. I get the feeling it’s going to be a good one! Thanks again for a stellar blog post Kelli.
Hey Bunny
You are so very welcome and I am glad you found it helpful. You are so right about recognizing the signs and how that can keep you on a good track energetically. I love that story and it is a perfect example of not knowing where the manifestation will come from. How could you think of getting a job from a website you didn’t even know existed? That she recommended a higher level job is also a nice little manifestation showing you are vibing higher in the self-image department which is something we all have to work on to various degrees. I am very excited for you and I cna’t wait to hear how it all unfolds. Please keep me posted!
Hi Kelli,
Great Post!
I like all the reader comments also, so much nice people wanting to learn more about LOA.
My insight as far as signs what you want is coming: Your Feelings! (How You Feel)
The way you feel is your compass, your Gage.
When you think about what you want to manifest, how do you feel?
If you’re feeling good, it’s on it’s way! (if you’re feeling bad, it’s drifting away)
Our brain is a transmitter and receiver of frequencies.
When we think about what we want, we’re sending out a frequency.
However, when get impatient, it messes up the receiver side.
(you’re focus is on it’s taking long, and you get what you think about – taking long)
To get back into the state of trust and allowing , I would advice trUst (yourself). If you think about what you want, and you feel good: just know (knowing-ness) that it’s going to come, keep thinking about it, speak about it. It might not show up the way you expect, so just let it be!
As far as signs, the more you think about what you want and feel good, you will get more like minded thoughts, that will make you feel better and attract bigger thoughts! *(intense desire). * Napoleon Hill “Decide what you want and get a burning desire for it’s achievement”
And, soon enough situations and experiences will present themselves to you, that give you the feeling you were projecting out into the universe. (our thoughts always relate to a feeling. The universe gives you back the feeling you are vibrating, not necessarily the thing you want itself)
Keep feeling good folks.
If for any reason you feel sad/bad, practice feeling appreciation that very moment, this will make you feel better and better and into alignment.
Thanks for reading this far 🙂
Peace.
Angelo
Thanks for such a great comment Angelo..you gave such great insight and tips. I have some great commenters here, and I love how they share their insights, experiences, tips and stories of their own LOA journeys. I learn from my readers just as much as they learn from me. You are so right we are sending out a frequency and that frequency is what that thing represents to us. And if we work on cultivating those feelings now, we become a better match to all the things that will make us feel that same way.
I love what you said: “All these ‘unwanted’ manifestations are not to mess with you, or random. They are there to help you see what still needs to be cleaned up.”
I have experienced A LOT of this the last week. In more than one area of my life. I really appreciate this kind of reminder. It’s so easy to feel frustrated, but it’s obvious that these manifestations are there to help not hinder. It’s all about perspective.
I enjoy your posts Kelli, I read all of them.
Hi Corin
It is such an important thing to remember because in the moment we are really not liking it and would prefer to be experiencing something more to our liking. No matter how much we get this attraction stuff, our emotions in the moment can really overpower that, and we get sucked in. When a lot come at once, it can be doubly challenging and I have experienced that on more than one occasion. I know you have the knowledge and access to that higher vibration to get through it..please do keep me posted. Whatever is happening, just be sure to let yourself feel your feelings and that will lighten things up rather than pretend to be okay when we are really frustrated, angry or whatever.
Thank you Kelli. In the moment I re-read your posts and have been listening to my recordings. They all help so much. Without your site and our coaching calls I think I would be struggling so much more.
Hi Corin
That is good you are doing that. When we are feeling a bit challenged, going back to materials that help us shift our mindset and reinforce the beliefs we want to be feeling more is super-helpful. When we zero in on that stuff that makes us feel better, we can deal with the difficult times much better.
This whole post resonates with me KC.
Mainly because I very often feel that the world is against me and deliberately putting roadblocks infront of me each day. I can actually see people around me (even those I dont know) desperately trying to hold me back from where I want to be.
I know that’s the wrong way to look at it and I do get frustrated seeing it happen over and over but I’ve been trying really hard the past months to keep myself away from thinking that way.
So far, Ive gotten better and it becomes funny at times because it’s so obvious… My wife says she could never believe that, well, until she experienced it. She just says I have the worst luck LOL.
Hi Dennis
First off, that you are able to admit what your beliefs are and that you feel that way is a good thing because that makes it easier to start clearing it up. When we go into denial about how we really feel, or pretend we have made shifts we really haven’t, we don’t get results and just get frustrated. We can’t trick the Universe into giving us something we are not a match to.
One of the first things you can do is examine why you think you feel that way and then start gathering evidence that the opposite belief is true. I am sure you have had plenty of good things happen and good ‘luck.’ That will appease your mind that there is some basis to the more positive belief and it will help build some momentum behind it.
Great post, love the bit on unwanted manifestations.
Hi Robert
So glad you liked the post. Thanks for your comment!
Hi KC,
The stuff, the resistance, and all that jazz surfacing are sure signs that what you’re doing is working. Carry on! What a blessing, knowing you’re heading in the right direction. I had to suffer for a long time to learn that biting the uncomfortable, but freeing, bullet, for moments each day opens me up to a whole, new exciting world. Do difficult things for seconds to have hours and days and months and years of easier times ahead.
Power post! Thanks KC, you really do have a way with words.
Tweeting from Bali.
Ryan
Hi Ry
You are right..it shows things are being shaken up. It might be a bit unpleasant at times, but if we can remember that, it is a lot easier to deal with. It is like a detox. Glad you liked it!
Thanks so much for this Kelli! I’ve had some almost manifestations that I turned down and thought it was because I wasn’t being specific enough. I feel better now knowing that my turning the opportunity down created more on target possibilities for me.
Hey
So glad you liked it. Those manifestations can throw us for a loop…but if it’s still not what we want, we can acknowledged that and dissect it a bit to see if there is any lessons in it, like maybe still having a block around getting what we want in its full form–like the job we want at the pay we want.
Very interesting. I’ve been hoping to hear from an ex. It’s been almost two months and I set an intention that I wanted to receive a text message from her and have been visualizing for just a few minutes a day, keeping my intention as light as possible.
Funny thing is, I’ve been getting all sorts of text messages from people I haven’t heard from in a while, sometimes right after I finish visualising. I guess it’s a positive sign.
Hi Dan
Glad you liked the post. You are certainly aligning your energy for increased contact and I suspect something interesting will come out of that. The one thing I would say though is to not get too attached to any outcome where we are hoping a specific person will take a specific action…we can’t control other people. But if your ex comes back into your life, there is some vibrational match there…just be sure to pay attention to your feelings and what have you.
Hi Kelli
Thanks for the article, very helpful and interesting as usual 🙂
I am trying to attract a specific person at the moment. I let go and let the universe deal with my manifestation. In the past I have built up resistance to letting go, trying to figure out the “how” all the time. I’m getting much better at this now 🙂
However, everytime I let go I get signs everywhere regarding this specific person. I’m not even looking for them. I see his name everywhere, I hear music playing that reminds me of him, etc. I then find myself obsessing over this and I have to let go all over again! My mind starts doubting and sending me negative messages.
Is this what others have experienced as well? Why when you let go, the universe keeps sending you signs regarding that specific person?
I do try to focus on the positive all the time I’m thinking of him and if any negative creeps in then I let it go or tell it to go away. I also write positive things about him, until I feel good again 🙂
I was faced with a decision today, and I remembered reading this blog post a while ago. Thank you for this, because I was able to turn down a job that was not quite perfect even though I really, really wanted it.
Hi Emjay
Glad the advice was helpful for making the decision you felt was right for you. This trust thing ain’t easy….good for you for following your intuition. That will never steer you wrong!
i m not sure what i want :(..and its makes me confuse .
so i can menifest…there are so mant things which bother me and i dont want them let go out of my life but it seems situation is not working for me,even i dealing everything with very positive attitude..
Hello , lovely post . I have a doubt please guide me .m trying to attract my love back . its been a month I’m visualizing, believing n al that as per LOA .recently iv “let go” n asked fr signs but I can’t c Dos signs ? What does dis mean ? Also my x boyfriend is in a relationship with a girl since a month , I want him back
… I want him to breakup n want them to forget each other completely and us to patch up ….ours was a 3 yr relationship . can you please help me with the affirmations also . thank you ?
Hi there
Thanks for your comment. You probably aren’t going to like what I am going to say but there is nothing you can do to guarantee another person act a certain way–we can’t control that. What you want deep down is love, companionship, etc..and he is just one representation of that. It is possible he could come back into your life but you have to be open to what you really want showing up in another way, another person, perhaps. There is a lot of attachment when it comes to relationships and I know it’s tough but know that you are whole and complete now and need nothing–that is the best way to attract a great relationship. This is a great opportunity for reflection and growth and I have a feeling you’ll come to see this relationship probably wasn’t as great as you are thinking now. Maybe he’ll come back, or maybe he won’t but either way, getting what you truly want is possible.
Hello 🙂 I saw some obvious signs in manifestations so i want to ask you something.
What if I’m visualizing impossible things? will there still be signs?
I mean, lots of law of attraction teachers says it’s impossible to attract a specific person or ex back, or talk about this vaguely.
But I’m currently doing it because she was so nice to me and I took for granted her love and treated her badly. I kinda realized no one could ever love me this sincerely.
So i when i started visualizing intensely and got confident I saw signs of manifestation like people around me getting back together constantly, running into my ex out of nowhere. but i’m not sure about i’m doing it right. because
1. I’m not sure reconciling with my ex is even possible,
2. I dunno if the even show on everything, even impossible things. getting me false hope.
does it show signs even on impossible things?
or does it mean i can actually achieve this thing?