Our mind isn’t exactly our friend in the manifesting process, and today I discuss one typical tendency against which you want to be very vigilant.
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Podcast #128: Law of Attraction: The Crucial Thing to Remember About All Manifestations
Hi, Kelli! How can I line up my energy with only ideal partners and nothing less? It’s frustrating to know that I have had great partner in my life and now to be aligning with average guys.
Don’t try so hard to align with the ‘perfect’ person since you actually don’t know who that would be. What you are ultimately after is the relationship and the feelings it gives. This person may look very different than the person your mind has cooked up. I think you really need to go more general with your energy management…you appear to be very fixated on specific manifestations–it’s okay to want whatever you want–and trying to ‘figure out’ how everything works so you can control it all. That is going to create a lot of anxiety.
Hi Kelli!
What I have understood from loa, we don’t get what we want but (more of) what we “already are”. This curious and painful question came into my mind (I wonder if you or anyone on the planet knows the answer!? :)). Why then millionaires don’t always (if ever) win the lottery? Shouldn’t they get (“attract”) more and more money? My aunt (or more my uncle actually) can be considered being a millionaire. She plays lottery for fun, obviously she does not “need” more money. Recently she won about 1000 dollars in lottery, without even trying to win. But jackpots or winning every time, no.
I have always struggled with money. I think I have developed an unhealthy attachment to playing lottery. Somehow I have figured out, this is the ONLY way I can get more money. I am happy for the success of my aunt and uncle, but it also makes me feel discouraged, disempowered. It feels likes something like winning the lottery is just dumb luck, good luck, random coincidence…so I have no power, no control over my finances…and then loa says we are all “deliberate creators”. I don’t know what to believe.
I work, but I have no such work where earning lot of money would ever be possible, like rock stars, pop singers, president, super model etc…I’m just an ordinary person, in ordinary work.
My uncle studied economy and then became economist. He made his fortune during many decades, with hard work, even risks, and most importantly with experience, knowledge, skills about finances. I have heard this phrase, “success is not an accident”, and I think it applies very well here!
But I am discouraged about my situation, my future. There are so many loa advices, books, online courses…you know, “get rich quick” type of promises, that I should just “feel it” and “tune into it”. Can money really come out of thin air? Please, I would love to hear what are your honest thoughts about these things? How do I know if I’m really in the “process” to attract my goals, that they are coming (financial and others)…or that I am just fooling myself, daydreaming?
Yes, money can come out of ‘thin air’ in the sense it can come from directions our mind can’t anticipate or ‘figure out.’ Your finances will only be limited by what you believe is possible to receive, and more importantly, what you are willing to receive based on your comfort level of money, how much you believe you ‘deserve’ it. The energy behind this comment contains a great deal of anxiety, and if you are willing to work through all this ‘stuff’ you have with money, you will start to manifest evidence of the ease of attracting it into your life, but that willingness to hold a different perspective must come first. Can’t wait on changing our beliefs until we see ‘proof’–when we understand the energy comes first, we see how that just isn’t possible.