You hear a lot about limiting beliefs when working with the law of attraction, and with good reason. What we believe forms the core of our experience. People struggle with changing limiting beliefs. On one hand, it’s challenging because our beliefs are so deeply ingrained…we have believed them for a really long time, and have manifested a load of experiences that ‘prove’ to our mind they are true.
And because they are so deeply ingrained, it is easy to get the impression that changing them must be some difficult, in-depth process. It really isn’t though. It all starts with a decision to simply not believe them and believe something else. This is where the mind jumps in with the ‘yeah buts’ and other arguments.
Like anything else with the attraction process, theory and actually aligning with what you want in the ‘real world’ are quite different and we need some help. If it were actually so simple to change beliefs, get happy and what not, we would just do it.
My new ebook is all about limiting beliefs and how to shift them and I think you guys will really like it. It is free on Amazon through August 14th. Be sure to pick up a copy and I would really appreciate your support by leaving a review.
Enjoy!
The Lowdown on Limiting Beliefs and How to Pulverize Those Little Bastards
Also, check out this short podcast talking a bit about the book and limiting beliefs I did on my husband Ryan’s podcast. It’s a good listen.
Dear Kelli,
Literally every time I find myself questioning this process or dropping into a low vibe, I get an email about your next blog post and/or ebook, and it relates directly to what I am dealing with.
Big THANK YOU for being so awesome, and to the Universe for obviously working through you.
xo
MJ
Hi MJ
I am so glad you are finding the content helpful and I hope you enjoy the book. THank you for your kind words…they mean a lot!
Thank you so much for the ebook! It really helps. I honestly still get rid of negative beliefs everyday and reprogram myself and I have been doing this for a little over a year now. Still not done yet 😉
Hi Akisha
None of us are ever done! Over time we shift, let in some good stuff, it gets easier to release, we go for new things, new limiting beliefs come up and rinse and repeat. So don’t worry about it!
Hi Kelli,
Thanks for this free ebook and I am so with you on this. My beliefs are ingrained and it’s hard to unlearn them. It takes time to unlearn them.
I am so excited to see what you discuss on the ebook and hopefully I’d learn a lot of things which can help me unlearn the limiting beliefs I have and make that conscious decision everyday to choose changing my beliefs.
Have a beautiful day!
Luna
Hi Luna
You are very welcome. I hope you enjoy it and find it helpful. We all struggle with this, and we will always be bumping up against them no matter how far we travel down the path. It is a process but it always doesn’t have to be painful. Luckily things can improve without getting ‘perfect’
Hi Kelli- I loved this post.
My question is- if I decide I’m no longer going to believe things that don’t serve me, I seem to get tested where more evidence that “proves” the limiting belief is true crops up than ever before. Is that normal? And what do I need to do to pass the test? It’s VERY hard to change a negative belief when everything is telling me the opposite.
Is that normal? To be tested first? It’s almost like the universe is saying “here ya go, you want to get rid of this belief> well I’m going to manifest tons of junk related to that belief for you to deal with”
Thanks again, Jane
Hi Jane
‘Succeeding’ with this work ultimately comes down to conscious choice. If we choose to keep believing things that feel badly because our experience up until this point has proven these beliefs true, we can do that, but obviously not helpful. The energy came first and then the manifestations–obvious LOA 101 but something we funnily forget almost constantly. No one is ‘testing’ you…you are just becoming more aware of your energy and how it is manifesting.