Law of Attraction: How to Kick Ass When Circumstances Seem to Be Against You

Once again, happy to drop some law of attraction knowledge from my husband Ryan, who knows his stuff for sure.

I published an inspired, fun to write blog post 15 minutes ago.

The internet no agree with me.

Sometimes I speak and write like a caveman when circumstances *seem* to be against me. To keep things Paleozoic. And to keep things light, airy and fun.

The Old Me (here comes that jagoff again) acted like a caveman. Didn’t bother uttering phrases commonly spoken by Peking Man. I’d hurl something somewhere to dissipate my anger. Or I’d punch a wall. Or I’d envision doing this silly, Cro Magnon, cretin type of stuff to let go my frustrations.

I have evolved.

Thank God.

I know how to laugh when situations *seem* to be against me.

Like right now. I’d enjoy promoting my latest blog post across 20 or so sites. But one bar interwebs signal strength no support my want. Unga Bunga.

So I laugh, speak funny words, envision the ice age, visualize how a mastodon sandwich would taste and move forward from an appreciative, chill, trusting space.

*SEEM*

You’re smart cookies. You know the drill: asterisks mean something. Like when you see them you know I’m faux lying. Or, I am uncovering a widely held falsehood.

My kiddies, circumstances are NEVER against you. Impossible in a Universe of One-ness. My lovelies, situations are NEVER against you. Not in a Universe of love, harmony and abundance.

Where is stuff against you? In your Monkey Mind. In illusions. In the hologram. Lies, I tell you. All lies. The idiot Old Me bought into lies. I NEEDED to promote my post on 20 sites to MANIFEST traffic and money. Bullshit.

I flipped out when the internet crashed because I believed me, the internet and my blog were sources of wealth, versus being unnecessary channels but fun to play with channels through which I may or may not receive money, make friends and inspire folks.

I decided it’d be more pleasurable and enjoyable to kick ass when things *seemed* (appearances, illusions, the hologram) to be against me.

This is how I did it.

This is one way for you to do it.

YAII

You Allow It In.

Law of attraction gals and guys, you allow it in. You let it in.

You feel fun-loving, appreciative and happy for life. No matter what “life” is, for you.

Then you allow in even more sweetness on top of the gobs of sweetness you’re already appreciating.

Where Folks Really Screw Up

TRYING like mad to GET stuff or to manifest stuff or to fight stuff.

Trying, attempting to get and fighting are polar opposites to the allowing energy.

Allowing is this energy:

“I’m whole and complete. I’m appreciative for everything. Yeah, those facts feel tree to me much of the time. Universe, I’m just gonna have fun and outsource everything else to you.”

That attitude allows in trips to Fiji, 6 month house sits in Bali and appearances on Richard Branson’s blog. Maybe a little fairy did not teleport me to Fiji, but I did allow in the ideas, people and circumstances to co-manifest those dreams.

Everything is for you. Everything supports you. Always. All tension and “against-ness” is a wicked illusion created by the dizzy, doozy mind.

We still love mind. We just get our jollies laughing at it. Silly little waves of energy…hehehe!

FAF

Follow Available Fun.

Interwebs really slow.

I’m writing. I write in a Word doc offline. I followed my available fun. Because I have fun writing.

If my computer exploded or dissolved into a fine mist, emanating into another dimension, I’d go and walk up a hill carrying a boulder. That’s another thing I do here in Rivas, Costa Rica for fun.

If we had an earthquake and subsequent landslide that wiped out the hill I’d return to la casa and enjoy a cup of grano do oro. Costa Rican coffee. Because I have fun drinking coffee.

Avoid bitching, moaning, or bemoaning circumstances. OK. Maybe you can complain 5 to 10 percent of the time. But unless you want to live a life of struggle, cut it out. Follow your fun. List 50 things you enjoy doing. When one seems to disappear, move to an available fun. Keep your high vibing, fun-loving vibe.

Allow in more goodness, sweetness and gift-ness.

(Note; if my laptop dissolved into a different dimension and an earthquake created a landslide that wiped out my boulder carrying hill I’d be the first male eligible to have a Lifetime movie created on my experiences.)

YAWAC

You Are Whole And Complete.

Take that ‘tude. You are whole and complete. You are everything. Really.

Do I feel this way all day long? Nope. But I feel this way for a progressively longer period each day.

Feeling whole and complete…um….do I need the internet? No. Social shares? No. Money? No. Fame? No.

You can’t add whole-ness to whole. You can’t add complete-ness to a complete being.

Embrace this approach/attitude/vibe for more time each day. Say it to yourself. Feel how false it seems to be? Good. Now you know why circumstances *seem* to be against you. Here’s what you do: skip around the house like a 5 year old and say that phrase. Oh yes, forgot to mention; wear a pair of underwear on your head while skipping around the house.

If you want to REALLY get over yourself you’ll do silly shit which moves your vibe higher than ever, which makes you playful, and which makes you receptive to God-like, Infinite, Divine truths that will make your life one big old playground.

Note; I suggest washing your underwear before wearing them on your head. Not a strong-arm suggestion, though.

BA

Be Appreciative.

The energy of appreciation pulled me through various forms of resistance.

It’s almost like I said to myself: “Well things SEEM to be shitty yet I know that’s the Silly Wizard Mind creating its dizzy little illusions again. Pipe down mind. OK, now that Monkey Mind is chewing on a Hologram Banana I can appreciate….(insert 1,001 things here…or 24 things.)”

I put my life and manifesting skills into freaking hyper drive during my recent house sit in the 12th level of Hades. I mean, during my recent house sit in Costa Rica.

How? GOA: No, not the hippy dippy beach community in India, I’m talking about:
Good Old Appreciation.

I woke up each day. I said to myself that I appreciated: waking up, myself, Kelli, food, money, the house sit, our world travels…and the list went on and on till the break of dawn. I went bonkers. I had little else to do, save walking the dog, eating and watching sloths scratch their armpits (We *really* did observe a sloth scratching its pits. Ask Kelli).

Situations appeared to be against me. Mentally. Physically. Hellish challenges. Yet I kicked butt and manifested awesome stuff online while detaching largely from the outside world in the jungle. I also served as Kelli’s Gringo Grocery Sherpa. Kick ass activity. At least in my eBook.

FFKA

Freaking Follow Kelli’s Advice!

We’ve only encountered 32,435,398 bouts of resistance during the past 8 and a half years. That was it. Only 32,435,398 times life SEEMED to be against us. I kept track.

Yet we kicked ass from Fiji to Bali to Thailand to Costa Rica, building full time blogging businesses and teaching folks how to live their dreams.

Subscribe to Kelli’s blog. Listen to her coaching calls. Buy in. Follow someone who’s become a master in seemingly disastrous situations.

Thanks for the plug my love…

Your Turn

Are you kicking fannies despite being tempted to believe in the hologram?

Are you an appreciative magnet to sweetness, fun and freedom?

Are you wondering how I kept track of the 32,435,398 bouts of resistance?

Call to Action

LOL about the LOA.

Or LOL because of the LOA.

Enjoy my bite-sized law of attraction eBooks – and audio books – on Amazon.

http://www.bloggingfromparadise.com/

Law of Attraction: How to Kick Ass When Circumstances Seem to Be Against You

4 thoughts on “Law of Attraction: How to Kick Ass When Circumstances Seem to Be Against You

  1. I really enjoyed this blog post as a reminder that life is supposed to be fun. When you mentioned “outsourcing” to the Universe, I got this image of being the boss and having other people do all the work for me. It felt good. I definitely plan on working on my appreciation skills and this post is confirmation that I’m heading in the right direction

  2. Fan-Frickin-tastic. Seriously. I’ve been crushing on this blog so much the past month since I discovered it and have been going thru major paradigm shifts in my beliefs, thoughts and actions. I came here today for wisdom and inspiration after having an unsettling dream about one of my desires, which I KNOW is manifesting at this very moment. My silly mind immediately started “what-if-ing” like crazy, what does this mean, etc, etc, ahhhhhh!! (Stop it, mind, just knock it the fuck off!) I already had come to the conclusion that it was simply my subconscious working out an underlying fear…and nothing more, back to positive. But still those nagging thoughts pestered on a bit, so I came here. This post, THIS is exactly what I needed!! You guys both rock. Much love.

    1. Hi Sarah
      Thanks so much for your comment and I am so glad you have been enjoying the blog. Dreams can be a great way to uncover resistance and like you said, it is just your mind bringing up a fear. It is very invested in however our life is now as it seems to be the ‘safer’ or ‘better’ option than what we may want to manifest. Don’t be afraid to look at them–that doesn’t reinforce them but only serves to break it down. Glad you found what you needed.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Scroll to top