Law of Attraction: How to Make Money Your Honey

Money.

Moolah.

Scrilla.

Cash.

Most human beings dream of having enough money to hop into a pool of dubloons like Scrooge McDuck, spitting out gold coins after surfacing, making Tony Stark and Bruce Wayne look like Oliver Twist.

But energetically, most people’s money vibe is not too far off from Oliver Twist’s deal, where they all but beg from the most desperate energy…..”Can I please have some more, sir?”

Building a harmonious bond with money allows more money into your experience. Allowing more money into your experience simply expands this means of exchange in your life. This is code for: if some product or service requires money, you’ll have more of this means to access said products or services.

No big deal.

It’s just money.

Which is step #1 in building a loving bond with money.

1: Don’t Be a Psycho Bitch with Money

Whether I have zero dollars or 4 cents or more than 4 cents, I am pretty chill around money because I see it as not being a big deal, just a means of exchange.

But during certain stages of my life I could never have a good, healthy, harmonious relationship with money because I was a Psycho Bitch with money, energetically. I’d stalk it. I’d check my bank account daily. I’d judge it. I’d ring it up in the middle of the night, wondering if it was still there, and if it had grown.

Most of my energy concerning money was dripping with fear, scarcity and lack. No matter what I had money-wise, it was never enough. Then when I had barely anything, I would go bat-shit nutz, flying into a rage, crying, screaming, falling to the floor, going into histrionics over something that, at its core, means nothing. Just a means of exchange.

Of course, clearing out these heavy fears helped me be in the energetic space I am in now. You may need to do clearing too.

Once you energetically *FEEL* and *BELIEVE* money is not a big deal, you either allow in more money which is cool, or you do not allow in more money, which is equally cool. This is the perfect energetic foundation for having a harmonious bond with money which allows more money to flow into your experience.

My advice: grab a pillow to cry into, or to punch, find a quiet room, and be with your genuine feelings about money. If you have been a Psycho Bitch with money, stalking it, checking on it, being terrified to let it go, feel the fears fueling these actions, and clear these energies to see it as a neutral means of exchange.

2: BE the Person Who Allows in Money

Money responds to your energy.

*Being* a person with a harmonious bond with money usually entails some form of generous, detached service, offered with no conditional pinings or expectations.

Admittedly, this step maddens most folks still clearing the employee mindset of “I did this and gotta get freaking paid.”

Money don’t give a rat’s rectum what you *do*. Money does care what you *be* because what you *be* is your energy and what you *do* is an action, and unless you act based on energy, you’re probably gonna have mad money problems.

Guys; this step is highly uncomfortable at first. It does not work like “Take these inspired energetic steps and cash in,” after a day, week or even month, sometimes. But as you keep being the person you eventually fall in love with helping folks through your job, through your business or literally by opening the door for old ladies at the grocery store, or by feeding street dogs, or by Liking and commenting on friend’s Facebook updates, with a generous, heart-felt vibe.

Being the person who allows in money is an intensely personal experience for all of us. For me these days it involves having fun writing blog posts and promoting some bloggers and creating some videos. Your intuition will guide you.

Neatly enough, when you have fun helping folks, you be the person who cares less about money, and the less you care about money it sneaks in the back door. Or if it doesn’t sneak in the back door you feel pretty detached about it because it’s no big deal (step 1 guys, step 1) and because it’s no big deal, you always know you’re taken care of anyway, have fun helping folks and surely enough ya know it’s building in the background.

This step is 100% about feeling and honoring intuitive nudges that goad you into actions that feel pretty fun, freeing and sometimes kinda uncomfortable. It is 100% not about mindlessly acting, being energetically ignorant, to get money. Nor is it about specific actions. Nor is it about action. It is being. Sounds weird at first, but you’ll get it. You do follow Kelli’s blog, don’t ya? You’re wise birds then, old souls, and will keep stepping into being.

3: Celebrate Pennies From Heaven

If someone emails me or notes on social media that they bought one of my eBooks I take a deep breath, becoming present, and in mind see and feel myself being hugged with love.

For a few seconds I say to myself “I feel so good that money-love popped up for me,” feeling a little happy charge of love, like I’m being hugged by the Universe, with Love.

Then I move on, increasing my detachment from money.

Most see money as some absurd nightmare. Others worship numbers on a screen which is so bizarre to me. Others believe that they can feel good *because* they have money which is an energetic shit show, because this conditional line of thinking leads to suffering, misery, frustration and anxiety. If the money appears not to be showing up, there goes ya good vibes, your security and your calm, peaceful vibe, right at the door with the money.

Instead of feeling good *because* you have money, feel good because you see yourself surrounded with love in many areas of your life, then train yourself to celebrate every penny that flows to you.

You can see yourself surrounded by 10 forms of love right now: your eyes for reading the post, your mind for comprehending the post, your brain for processing this post, Kelli’s blog for her wisdom, my insane ramblings about being a Psycho Bitch around money, the money you made 20 years ago (if you want to unearth and feel a shitty feeling but incredibly freeing money block, go back into the Now aka past and see how you totally ignore money manifestations from days, weeks or years ago…), the money you made last week, or 40 years ago, and I’ll leave the last 2 forms of love you’re surrounded by, for you to see and feel….energy practice!

If you see and feel a penny to be love, you’re giving your attention to love, and if you’re giving your attention to love, and since where your attention and energy goes, grows, more love moves into your life, in all forms.

Since you’re following the prior steps, money, and money making ideas, will flow to you, Accept and receive the money and ideas for prospering. Do not be rigid. Be open.

The Wrap Up

Be gentle with yourself. You probably need to feel and release some totally untrue but unpleasant feelings concerning money to have an harmonious relationship with their neutral energy, this simple means of exchange.

Over time, and with patience, as you shift your energy concerning money you will notice money moving into your experience more frequently.

Smile, feel the love-hug of money, then move on.

It’s more about feeling a loving embrace and less about piddling in your pants from wild excitement.

Remember…it’s just money.

Your Turn

What did you think of the post? What struck you in particular? Any money alignment tips you would like to share? Looking forward to your comments as always.

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