There is a good chance you were drawn to a teaching like the law of attraction because you were feeling some sort of lack in your life; you weren’t feeling so good about your current circumstances. Totally understandable. That sense of contrast helps us get some clarity on what we would prefer, what we want our life to be like.
But we often go into the ‘process’ of manifesting with some hidden agendas that can sabotage us big time. The link below will bring you to the latest podcast…enjoy
Law of Attraction: What Are Your Hidden Manifesting Agendas?
Podcast #57: Law of Attraction: What Are Your Hidden Manifesting Agendas?
Great podcast, Kelli. It affirmed one desire that I’m manifesting, which is a relationship with a specific person, and that I could say with complete confidence that I desire it because of pure reasons such as: we have great compatability, we work well together, we enhance each others’ lives, I desire to continue learning and putting into practice patience, understanding, to share with him all the wonderful things I have to give, etc, etc. In fact, I felt great knowing that I had this realization all on my own when I woke up one day a few weeks back. It suddenly hit me that as I’ve dug thru the shitty stuff from my past, I didn’t *need* this relationship in a needy or desperate way. I had come to learn and believe in my inherent worth and value and no longer had any sense of needing to “Be completed” by another person, etc. I had the realization that I didn’t *need* him, but simply *wanted* a relationship with him (focus on the relationship, not any type of possession of him as a person)! This was a wonderful feeling to realize how much I’d grown and how my desire was now truly coming from a pure place of creating for the sake of creating.
No surprise to me that the money one from your podcast is a big one for me and I knew I as I listened that there’s still some unhealthy agendas in my desires. I have done a lot of delving and identifying of limiting beliefs in this area of my life and definitely have a better sense of my worth. One area where I’m having a challenging time re-framing a hidden agenda is regarding the necessity of money/income, simply from a place of not only surviving in a basic sense, but also thriving. What might you suggest in terms of how I can re-frame the need for money, as in “I need x amount of dollars this month just to make ends meet?” I believe I’m worthy of good income, I believe I offer good/services that are valuable and I love the work I do…I just need a little help getting past the literal need to make ends meet. Thank you in advanced!
Hi Sarah
Sorry for the delayed response–this comment got lost in the shuffle. As for money, it can be tricky because our mind is really focused on just having enough to meet our needs and can’t really see beyond to larger amounts. It may want them, but energetically it is in survival mode. One of the keys that helped me was cultivating a sense I was whole and complete as I was, a being who needed nothing. That doesn’t literally mean not having stuff but just cultivating a sort of energy where I was attracting from a space of ‘fullness’ rather than thinking I was lacking something. In that space, you are viewing money very differently and that changes how it comes into your life.