In a perfect world, all we would need to do to manifest what we want is decide we want it, put out some positive energy, trust it will come, and go on our merry way. But we have some kinks in our energy that often need to be addressed; we need to clean up our vibe. Today’s podcast discusses one of the most important things we need to do if we want to truly become conscious creators.
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Podcast #120: Law of Attraction: Without This, All Your Energy Work Will Be for Naught
Thanks Kelli for another great podcast. Well, feeling like a victim is pretty prevalent in our society. I thought I was not into the victim mentality but have discovered otherwise. I went through a very difficult period in my life three years ago and it made me search for answers because I was suffering a lot. I felt powerless in this situation and needed to find some relief. I stumbled on the law of attraction teachings and my life has now taken a whole new direction. But there was still some resentement towards people that were part of this situation and I guess I didn’t understand that there was still a little part of me that felt like a victim, otherwise why would I still feel angry and resentful in the back of my mind. My body is processing this right in the form of stomach pain or gallblader (the doctors eliminated other diagnosis). Or maybe my pain has nothing to do with this… Anyway, it made me realise this victim position so I needed to feel some feelings and then let go of the resentment and forgive myself. I think I’m in the process of clearing this shit (ahaha… I’m laughing as I’m writing the word shit because I know those kind of words don’t offend you and I feel free to write it here 😉. So yeah, this podcast really resonated for me! Thanks again Kelli, you’re the best!
Hi Caroline
Thanks so much for sharing your experience and great insight. I liked what you said about allowing yourself to feel the anger and resentment. Sometimes we just need to let them out and admit that is how we feel, no matter how much we intellectually understand we are responsible for our own emotions,etc… If something is there, it’s there, no use trying to pretend it isn’t. The feeling of it without judgment takes some air out of the energy and it is much easier to move past. I am so glad you liked it and it sounds like you are doing great!
Thanks for your reply Kelli, it is much appreciated!
On point as usual. I am sitting here in cold Ohio at my home where I grew up. So many mental things to deal with while staying focused on my reasons for this very wise dedication. So, while working on accepting my current situation and working towards my dream I felt totally miserable yesterday and it spilled into today. One thought was (LOL) how am I supposed to have a healthy romantic relationship / marriage? I never saw my mom or dad take part in such behavior growing up!! Oh-oh. This podcast was just what I neede to shake me back to me. I can and am doing better; I feel by doing nothing in that area for the time being. I am able to reflect and focus and see where perhaps I was the problem and deal with those issues. Not fun but definitely a worthwhile journey.
Hi Michelle
Thanks so much for your comment and sharing your experience. Good for you for taking the courage to examine your energy more deeply. Sometimes we have more ‘stuff’ in certain areas, and the goal in the moment isn’t so much to ‘try’ and attract what we want, but get a better understanding of why it isn’t here and what energy led us to manifest the circumstances we are unhappy with. Then we know what we are dealing with, and moving forward, we can make more meaningful changes in our energy. You are right…not always a party but not so bad if we are willing to look at our negative feelings in a different way, and feel them without resistance.