The law of attraction is often presented as a system where we make the Universe our bitch, and demand things of it. And by simply asking, we are entitled to receive them. But that isn’t wholly accurate. Listen in to get a better sense of what may need to be ‘done’ on our end to make space for all the wonderful assistance the Good Old U is capable of providing.
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Podcast #87: Law of Attraction: The Universe Can Only ‘Help’ You If You Let It

Fab podcast.
That’s the rub; allowing the Universe to handle things – ceding control – is hyper uncomfortable to most folks at first. Because we are taught to be masters of manipulation and control. But if you allow and release these energies, stuff lines up nicely for you. Or the Universe handles it.
Good note on the process of attraction; totally neutral, non judgmental, just is. We co-create and manifest by acting from a loving, fun space and outsourcing EVERYTHING else….and I do mean EVERYTHING.
Thanks for sharing.
Ryan
PS….I love the bird of paradise calling in the background. Super exotic.
Thanks Mr. Biddulph. I didn’t even hear them when recording it…guess I was too immersed in dropping some LOA knowledge.
One thing I remember hearing a while ago is that, in order to receive from the universe, you need to get comfortable receiving from other people. So if someone offers to buy you lunch, let them, don’t argue! If someone has a pair of ugly, ugly shoes and they want you to have them, take them (you can always donate them to Goodwill or something)! If you are not open to receiving from people, you cannot receive from the universe, because sometimes people are vehicles for the universe.
I think this might be Dr. Wayne Dyer. I don’t know… I found a lot of audio clips on manifesting on a website once and downloaded a bunch.
Hi MJ
That is such a great point and so true. This is especially important with money–we make it so significant and there is so much struggle and pain around it. And with that view of money, one of the biggest issues will be, either consciously or unconsciously, feeling extremely guilty taking it from other people, taking something so significant from them.
So honored to receive a shoutout, Kelli! Talk about the Universe confirming to me that I’m making the right decision… This whole week I’ve been vacillating between feeling really good (80%) and my mind screaming at me “But the mortgage is due!” (20%). Lol!
I’ve been telling my mind that it’s okay – we can trust the Universe. Then I listen to your podcast this morning, and I was just blown away. Here’s some evidence for my mind! Thanks so much, Kelli!
Hugs,
Jeannie
Hi Jeannie
Yeah, that 20 percent can be a real buzzkill! Just let it do its thing with a sense of detachment. That will keep you from ‘adding’ to the energy, and the thoughts will just pass.
I always listen to your podcasts by the way. Multiple times! ?
Good to hear!
Loved the podcast Kelli. Came at the right time. I really needed what you said in it. What I got from this podcast is as soon as you start feeling journey is not going the way you really thought just take a break and let universe handle things. I always remember that post where you said if journey doesn’t feel good then destination won’t feel good either. But sometimes mind just keep pushing things and keeps running old programming.
I think sometimes it’s hard to give up on figuring out ‘how’ and just relax. You explained so well in this podcast about how to trust universe more and allow it to help you. The example you gave sounds perfect.
Hey Rhea
Thanks for your comment and I am glad you enjoyed the topic. I think that is a great takeaway. Ceding that ‘control’ can be hard but it gets easier over time as we begin to manifest ‘proof’ that it usually works in our favor when we do so, and our meddling in everything usually just slows things down!
I’ve listened to this a few times. I love the principle of taking a step before you’re fully energetically ready and trusting that the Universe will meet you there. I have set intentions for several bigger manifestations that felt entrenched in the past. I’ve started consciously identifying baby steps that create momentum without being drastic enough that they spark resistance. It’s been powerful to see them begin unfolding. I get that Universe is the one orchestrating but easing into them helps me keep a positive mindset and high vibration. I want to thank you for your lightwork. This blog and a couple others have been so helpful to me as I went through a spiritual awakening that was initially terrifying but has been transmuted into continual miraculousness.
Hi Ruby
Thanks so much for your comment and I felt such a great energy coming from you as I read this comment. You share such great insight here and anyone who reads this comment and is struggling with the ‘action’ part of the equation will find your advice very clarifying. It really is miraculous!
Kelli, could you give an example in which the resistance is too heavy that it’s not a good idea for person to operate from this space of trust and how to act then? (if he wants to change the situation/pattern) Thank you!