Feeling a bit frustrated with your attracting efforts? Is what you want still not here, and you are starting to doubt this stuff actually works? Is it getting harder and harder to keep feeling good in spite of your ‘reality’ not being quite to your liking? Are you pissed at yourself that you can’t seem to shake the limiting beliefs that you ultimately know aren’t true, but still feel pretty true to you most of the time?
Does it feel a bit maddening that you know attracting actually doesn’t technically take any ‘work,’ but that is is often necessary to bust through the deeply-ingrained negative beliefs, yucky feelings and highly distorted self-image we have been carrying around with us for most of our lives? Do you just want to punch your brain for getting in the way of the whole process? If our minds weren’t so insistent on being involved, this attracting thing would be an absolute breeze.
Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. I totally know what this is like. I too experience this at times, as I realize there are certain things I want that I am not quite a match to yet, and I get frustrated. I have reached a point where I have had some major breakthroughs energy-wise, and there is a part of me that seems to really be holding on, and trying to keep me ‘small,’ and while I’m pretty much winning this battle, she is quite the formidable opponent.
This is a yucky place to be. You read about LOA and it was like a huge weight had been lifted. To realize we don’t have to settle for a life we don’t want, and we can take control by simply working with our energy, and shifting a few beliefs around, is life-changing. There seemed to be so much promise, but things just aren’t coming together, and we feel a huge sense of disappointment.
Bad news is, you feel really shitty right now. The good news is, hope is not lost, and these sorts of really intense low times, actually present a tremendous opportunity to clear out a lot of gunk and creates some pretty big shifts.
Here are some tips that I hope you will find helpful if you are thinking about throwing in the towel with your manifesting efforts.
Admit You’re Not Feeling as Good as You are Claiming
We insist we have overcome certain beliefs and that we have been feeling really good, damn it. What we want just isn’t coming, and we have been doing everything ‘right.’ There must be more to this attraction thing than simply our feelings—other things must still have an impact on whether we get what we want, that has to be the case because I have been feeling great, damn it.
But, if we feel that our manifesting has been stunted and not much of anything has been happening—no signs of life that what we want is on its way, we probably haven’t been feeling as good as we have been claiming. We may have given a lot of lip service by telling ourselves we are powerful creators, we can have what we want, blah, blah, blah, but as for actually feeling better…..probably not.
It can be hard to admit this, because we mistakenly believe attracting is about shoving the crap to the side, no matter how much it is festering, and trying to ‘think happy thoughts.’ This whole time, there has probably been a whole lot of stuff that has been bothering you, and standing in the way of really manifesting anything of significance, but you just kept glossing over it.
If we can admit this to ourselves, we will feel a whole lot better about our current situation. It is really frustrating to think we are doing everything we are supposed to be doing, and not getting the results we want. But, if we can see that we have been doing something ‘wrong,’ and I put that in quotes because I don’t actually mean wrong, that is a whole different story. We can pinpoint what might be screwing things up, and work on fixing it.
Step Back from Specific Desires and Just Work on Feeling Better Overall
Manifesting a specific thing actually doesn’t require us to pay it special mind at all…technically, you could never think about the thing you want ever again, and so long as you became a match to receiving it, it was the best representation of what you wanted, and was something you actually wanted, it would show up eventually.
But, because we have limiting beliefs surrounding this thing we want to bring into our experience, we usually have to do some work on shifting our energy, and this involves focusing on this thing in one way or another.
For example, you would want to engage in visualization, which can be an awesome tool for getting into a good-feeling space, and helping you identify any limiting beliefs—it is good for the latter because thinking about what we want often brings up uncomfortable feelings, and this can help us pinpoint all the reasons we don’t think we can have what we want.
Most of us haven’t fully mastered the art of detachment, so that muddies the waters a bit because we feel like we ‘need’ this thing to be happy, or we are frequently noticing its absence. We worry the Universe might forget we want something if we stop thinking about it all the time, and we can’t have that now, so think, think, think we do.
We’re doing a lot of work trying to cultivate good feelings around whatever it is we want. If you are feeling really frustrated with this whole law of attraction thing right now, one of the best things you can do is ‘step away from the desire,’ and just work on feeling good overall. Don’t worry, your order has been placed, and shifting your attention away from trying to feel good around this desire specifically to just feeling good overall can do wonders for you. It can ease up some of the pressure, and when you start feeling better overall, you’ll notice all sorts of cool manifestations in all areas of your life. This will boost your faith in LOA, make you feel better, and the better you feel…well, you know how that goes.
Take a Break from All the ‘Work’
Here’s the thing about law of attraction…it is always working, always has been, well before you actually became aware of it. Think of all the good things you attracted into your experience before you were consciously working with your energy—chances are, you weren’t doing much. You held some favorable beliefs that supported getting these things and you got them.
Like I mentioned earlier, we really don’t have to do anything to attract, but in practice, we usually need to. We have discovered limiting beliefs around certain things we want, and we have to shift them. When we really want bigger and bolder things, things we may have not thought possible before discovering this amazing concept, we have to work on really raising our vibration to a much higher place, and do all we can to feel super-good.
So, something that actually requires no effort can take quite a bit..we have to tweak some things before we can step into that role of power manifestor who manages to get a bunch of awesomeness while doing a whole lot of nothing.
Chances are, you have been engaging in all sorts of activities, whether it is making vision boards, visualizing, making lists, doing affirmations, etc…, and if you are pissed right now about your lack of movement, it might be a good idea to step back from the ‘work.’ There has been a whole lot of doing, but maybe not a whole lot of ‘being.’ We attract based on what we are, not what we do.
These sorts of activities can really make us feel good, and create a sense that we are going to get what we want, but right now, all that stuff probably doesn’t feel good, so back off it. These things are not actually necessary, but merely tools to help you improve your energy, which is the root of creation.
You’re Going to Feel Compelled to Act…Be Cognizant of the Drivers
We all know one of the cardinal rules of manifesting is taking inspired action, the kind that feels good and light. All of that work that feels hard, unpleasant and forced is not necessary, but given the ‘no pain no gain’ paradigm that has been deeply ingrained, this mode of thinking, while something that is awesome and we really want to buy into, is not readily accepted by our brains. It just seems too easy. ‘
Even though you may be a bit resistant, you do your best to work from a place of inspiration. You try really hard not to do things that don’t make you feel good. You work on not forcing or manipulating circumstances through certain types of action.
But, things haven’t been going to your liking, and you wonder if you have been doing enough. This whole ‘feeling good’ and ‘inspired action’ thing may be a bunch of baloney, and it is high time you started doing more…you are going to make shit happen.
Be really careful here. Taking action can actually be a very good form of energy work because it can feed into the expectation that we can have what we want…doing something for the sake of ‘doing something’ can actually make us feel a lot better. For example, it might make you feel good to apply for at least one job each day, all the while accepting this job can come through any channel. You are not attached to the idea that you must actively send out applications and resumes, because that is the only way you can land one.
The problem is, though, that is usually not the driver when we are in this type of space. We are feeling like crap because we don’t have what we want, and we are acting from a place of fear and doubt—we think that we won’t get what we want unless we take these specific actions, and we determine what we want can only come through a limited number of channels, so we best get to work on forcing our results through them. And, we end up doing a whole bunch of stuff that makes us feel even worse.
So, if that urge to start taking a more active role in your manifestations through action is beginning to bubble up, be sure to examine what is driving that. If you are doing it from a space of feeling badly, and you are compelled to do a bunch of stuff that doesn’t feel very good, do you absolute best to resist this urge. If you feel compelled to do certain things because it will actually make you feel better, then go for it. But remember not to get attached to that course of action as being the way what you want will come.
Another helpful thing to consider is the idea of just sitting with what is happening for a bit without doing anything. In this space, there is a good chance you will get some intuitive nudges to do certain things, or you will come across information that you will find helpful in dealing with this uncomfortable period, which might serve as inspiration to take certain steps that will be beneficial.
In Closing….
When we start consciously working with law of attraction, it can be a bit uncomfortable as we become more conscious of our negative thoughts, beliefs and feelings. We have allowed ourselves to want things we may have never allowed ourselves to want; we have let certain possibilities into our orbit that couldn’t make their way in previously.
And, having activated all that, the idea of not getting these things can be a real blow. One of my readers made a great observation that once we let ourselves want all this stuff, the life we have now can look a lot less tolerable than it was previously when we were pretending it wasn’t so bad, and we weren’t actively comparing it to some better existence we have cooked up for ourselves. We see the role we have played in our experience up until now, and while it is incredibly empowering to take responsibility, knowing it is only us standing in the way of what we want can be disheartening, and we beat ourselves up way too much.
I have said this many times before, and I’ll say it again..be sure to show yourself some compassion when doing this important work of creating your most desired life, and connecting with the powerful creator that lies within. It was lying dormant for a really long time, and it can be a bit of a process to really wield this power with ease.
Your Turn….
What did you think of the post? Anything jump out at you as particularly helpful? Did you see yourself in anything I wrote here? What tips would you give to people who are feeling frustrated with the attraction process? Looking forward to hearing your thoughts so we can have a nice chat.
Hey Kelli:
Another great post. This one made me laugh when I read if the brain didn’t interfere, manifesting would be a breeze. I got a picture in my head of my brain with little arms and hands, bobbing and weaving around, saying, “Hey … hey you … what about this? Aren’t you gonna try that?” I am feeling good, damn it! So what’s going on?
For me, I realized you’re right in that perhaps sometimes we don’t really feel as great as we think we do, that’s why I may not be a shiny, happy “manifester” yet. I was concerned that I wouldn’t get what I wanted if I didn’t follow the standard LOA methods and be very specific. Any case, this post is really helpful and is something I’m going to take the time to ponder and absorb.
Thanks for this.
Hi
So glad you liked it. That is a very funny image and maybe it would be a good idea to think of our brain in that humorous way when it is being a real drag…then maybe we can be a bit more light about the whole thing. It is good when we acknowledge how we are really feeling because then we realize that it is not just the Universe holding out on us, or that it just isnt’ working..we see there is something stuck and we can pay it the proper attention.
Hi Kelli
What a coincidence that just coming to your blog after reading a post at Chery Schmidt’s blog with same example of law of attraction. But the topic of her post was entirely different than yours.
You are right for dealing the losing stream it is wise to first accept the reality. Once the reality is accepted then it is easy to resolve the issue. Negating the conflict can never manage it.
Yes, taking a break is good advice if someone is just working without any break and wrongly assume work is everything in life. Obviously not, work is simply a mean to achieve the ultimate end of eternal happiness.
Thanks a lot for sharing this lovely post.
Hi
Thanks so much for your comment and so glad you liked the post. You make an excellent point about just accepting the present moment for what it is..that acceptance is powerful in that it is the first step in transforming the situation and our feelings. I agree that any work we do is that means to the end of happiness..it is easy to think that is the point itself, which is not a very fun way to live!
Thanks for this, Kelli. I’ve been trying to manifest something for a long time and while I have seen signs that something is working, it’s not completely worked out. I’ve discovered that I have some fearful beliefs around the issue, so I expect it’s mainly that blocking it from manifesting (there may be other things too). Sometimes I get really frustrated and think I should just give up but I’m not quite ready to give up yet.
It can be a good idea to just step back and focus on feeling good in general, like you said. I think I will do that, while also working on anything I feel inspired to.
Hi there
So glad you liked the post. That is great that you realize there are some issues around the manifestation..that is half the battle right there! It can be frustrating when our outside appearance doesn’t match what we want it to be, and it can be hard to keep smiling through it. But, we always want to make that important distinction between pretending we feel okay and actually feeling pretty good. When you say ‘give up’ I am not sure if you just mean giving up wanting the thing or you are referring to some sort of active actions you are taking to manifest this thing..if the latter, make sure you evaluate the actions you are taking and how they are making you feel.
Also, you want to work on developing a sense of surrender that allows us to accept with less angst, situations as they unfold. Many people look at this as ‘giving up’ but it is a very different energy, and one that can be really great for making room for our manifestations to come in. I think that stepping back will be really helpful for you to give you a nice boost vibrationally, and that will set you up to allow lots of great ideas and inspirations to flow in.
Thanks for your reply, Kelli. I meant give up doing manifestation techniques and working on beliefs, working towards it and just give up altogether, like give up wanting the thing. But I think giving up wanting something is easier said than done. And I’ve found that working on my beliefs has helped me in general. That’s good advice about evaluating the actions and how they make me feel.
I’ve read about surrendering. I have anxiety and just surrendering to things is meant to be good for helping with that too but I’m often in an anxious state. I’m working on feeling better in general. Thanks for the advice. 🙂
It sounds like you are doing okay…probably better than you think. Taking a break from any active work towards your desire, like whatever manifesting techniques you are using, could be a good idea. It doesn’t mean giving up on what you want, but could help in that it will help you actively think about this thing less.
Yeah, maybe I am doing better than I think. 🙂 I have seen little manifestations/signs. Sometimes it’s easy to overlook them. I think I will just concentrate on feeling good in general and do a technique if it feels good and like the right thing to do but leave it if it doesn’t.
I think that is a great idea. And keep paying attention to those smaller manifestations…they are the signs you are on the right path. Sometimes a manifestation comes in ‘parts’ as we become a stronger match to the ultimate representation.
Thanks for your replies. It can help to talk it through sometimes. 🙂
(If this comment looks out of order it’s because I couldn’t reply directly to the last comment, so I replied to an earlier one).
My pleasure..you are right..talking it out can be very very helpful. Helps break up the energy.
Thanks Kelli, I am really enjoying your blog.
the comment ” It was lying dormant for a really long time, and it can be a bit of a process to really wield this power with ease” struck a chord
It seems to me this wonderful universe puts some amazing blocks in the way of us using our power in a selfish or uninspired way.
Our power of attraction is beautifully balanced with our ability for wisdom, compassion & generosity. What is truly amazing is we do it all. We mastermind all the blocks & the breakthroughs. How awesome is that!
Jeddah Mali talks about allowing “true reverence for our being” . It is a big step from seeing ourselves as victims of life to seeing ourselves as co-creators with infinite potential.
You are helping to bridge that gap.
Thank you
Anna
Hi Anna
Thanks so much..so glad you are finding the posts helpful. That was a very interesting insight..thanks for sharing that. I think anyone who reads it will feel the same. You are right..we are doing it all. When we realize our experience is just a mirror of everything within, that is very empowering because it means we can change the mirror by changing something within. Sometimes we may not always know why we manifested a particular situation as some manifestations can be quite complex. When it comes to the ‘bad’ things, it is important we not blame ourselves for causing it..that is not really what is happening.
I like that term a lot, and it says so much…when we start seeing ourselves for who we really are, there is no need to ever feel like a victim because we know we have the power to mold whatever sort of experience we want…very empowering and life-altering view. I am glad that what I write here inspires people to adopt this view, and hopefully start making the changes they want to make.
Hi kelli,
Thanks a lot for helping me out! This article is an answer to all my previous questions.I’m glad that universe brought me to your blog.
Thanks again!
Stay happy and blessed!
That is great..so glad you found the post helpful and it gave you some information you can apply to your own situation. You stay happy too!
Hi, Kelli, thanks for pointing out the big issues that are so often the hardest to see.
What stood out for me was the point about standing back from specific desires and work on feeling better overall – it’s so easy for me to get fixated on one thing and not see it’s just part of a whole.
I was also drawn to ‘We attract based on what we are, not what we do’ – which is so true. This reinforces the point you made in Sue Anne Levie’s interview post about doing what resonates with you, not what’s expected.
Great insights as ever.
Hi Donald
Thanks so much..so glad you liked the post. It’s funny how simple it is to start seeing improvements or ‘fix’something that has been bugging us,but we often can’t see it for ourselves because there is so much blocking it. We have this wisdom but we just can’t access it. Then we read a blog post or whatever, and it’s like…of course that is what I should be doing! Doing things that resonate with us is very powerful, but can certainly be challenging sometimes because we tend to pay a lot of attention to what everyone else is doing, etc..and then feel like we should be doing things a certain. We don’t always trust that intuition, but with some practice, we can change that and we’ll experience plenty of proof in our own life that there is something to it, which helps reinforce it all.
Hi Kelli
Another fabulous post you have been reading my thoughts again lol
I manifested all that I wanted by writing them down and just forgetting all about them and eureka there they were like as if they sneaked up on me unaware. Manifestation I have learned cannot be forced and you are correct in stating that we do not have to do anything to manifest.
The frustrating part is waiting for it to happen so we tend to concentrate on this which in turn frustrates the manifestation itself puts us in bad mood and we end up almost giving up. So you are right again saying to live for the now, how you are, where you are, and whatever is your situation, you have created your manifestation in your being the universe has also created it and it will deliver so think of it as a Done Deal and forget about how or when!
The thing is that happiness is never found on the outside thus whatever you are asking for be it wealth, house, car, job, will not bring happiness as they are outside things, happiness is only ever found within ones being and if you are not happy now you will not be happy with any of these things.
Sure I and we get frustrated, stressed, and upset when our manifestations do not come into reality and I often shout out like a freaking idiot “what the freaking hell are you trying to do to me – I asked for this or that and you are playing a freaking joke on me – so come on now deliver and no more messing me about” If anyone saw or heard me they would think I lost the plot completely lol.
So what I do is the things I love doing best like seeing nature in plants and animals mountains rivers and the sea. Wow what a wonderful place I live and I experience this every day and I am really happy.
Thank you Kelli you awesome lady for taking me by the virtual hand and with your loving partner Ryan together we walk through this life experiencing the beauty with the LOA acting on our behalf. Do you see everybody reading this – I manifested Kelli and Ryan into my life and I didn’t have to do anything only ask and forget and they were surely delivered.
You little Irish friend
Dominic
aka John Lennon Cohen
Hi Dominic
You are right..waiting for something to happen can be a bit frustrating. That doubt starts to creep in and we wonder if it is actually coming, if we are doing something to slow things down,etc…Timeframes for manifestations is not something we can really predict in any real way..I think a lot goes into certain types of manifestations and for everything to line up as it should, that may take time. Consciously focusing your attention on things that make you feel good is an awesome tool. It means so much to me to hear we have been such a help to you…that is exactly what I wanted to accomplish by writing this blog. Much love to you.
Hi Kelli
Right back at you sending much love.
I always tell the Truth and this sometimes gets me in hot water LOL
Untruths never sit well with me and whenever I hear any BS or a con-job being hidden I will ask the awkward questions. Again I feel this is inspired, intuition if you like but it has almost always worked in my favour.
I am a very sensitive guy and I let what people say to me affect me especially if they get me wrong and no matter how I try to explain their mind is already made up. So I have taken the bold step of deleting on line all persons who push negativity my way and that way they don’t disturb my positive energy.
Yes Kelli you are awesome and I give thanks every day that the universe has taken me to you – so honest, so truthful and so awesome and I learning from you to be a much better person.
Your little Irish Friend
Dominic
Hi Dominic
That is very good you limit interactions with people who make you feel badly in some way..nothing can mess with our energy quite so powerfully as other people.On the flip side, high vibing people can be one of our greatest assets in shifting our energy.
Hi Kelli,
I read this article at a time when I’m going through change. It was just what I needed. I’m working on attracting the right people to me who have the same wants,drives, desires as myself. But as you mentioned, it is hard work.
I have had a situation recently with friends where our relationship has changed to negative and I realized the other day, that I need to think differently to make it right again….to draw the positive back into the group. I’m actively working on this now and I started this week my praying.
Changing my outlook was the way. Your article reinforced it. Thank you so much.
God bless,
Barbara
Hi Barbara
Thanks so much for your comment and I’m so glad you found something helpful within the post to apply to a current struggle you are facing. People problems can be particularly trying so I get how stressed you may feel about the situation.Tensions with friends and family can really do a number on our energy.
If you are doing that work in trying to attract good matches to you, that is exactly what you will get. What you are doing now is great because that deliberate work will raise your energy, and you’ll make room for all sorts of ideas, solutions and inspirations to make their way in that will aid you in getting your desired results.
Hi Kelli
I’m new to LOA. Thank you for the bits about limiting beliefs and feeling disheartened – I’m not alone!
Shan
Hi Shan
Thanks for your comment. You are certainly not alone. This whole manifesting thing can be tricky..the concept is simple, but getting our mind straight about it can take a bit of work as we are contending with a lot of limiting beliefs. Just keep reading about it to get that good info rooted and just work on feeling good as much as you can..that is the crux of it.
Hi Kelli, thank you so much for this post. This is what I needed. I’ve been working with the LOA since about July aaaand I’ve been EXTREMELY frustrated. I’ve had pretty much no luck manifesting anything. I’m 17 years old and will be graduating high school soon, so I’m panicking about college, finances and my future adult life in general. I have huge dreams of becoming an actress but I’m feeling super anxious, especially because my family has struggled with finances my entire life. I’m getting scared…if I can’t even manifest seeing a specific car like I’ve been trying to how can I manifest ANYTHING??
Hi Mekalah
Thank you so much..so glad you liked this post. First off, awesome for you that you are already working with something like LOA at the age of 17…stuff like this was not even on my radar at that age, and I imagine most people doing any sort of personal development work would say the same. Starting this early bodes very well for creating lots of awesomeness in all aspects of your life. Here’s the thing…you have had a whole lot of beliefs pounded into your head since you were young, and you probably won’t be able to get rid of them completely in just a few months. So, it’s okay if you are struggling some..don’t beat yourself up about this because it will just make you feel worse. You also want to make sure you are working on ‘being’ a certain way, and not just taking a whole bunch of actions trying to manifest, like constantly doing exercises or affirmations,etc…These things are very helpful tools but it is easy to get caught up in all the ‘work’ and all the while, lose track of how we are actually feeling, which is the core of creation.
As for feeling discouraged about not even being able to see the type of car you want to manifest, don’t worry too much about that. While that sort of experience often shows us we are focusing well and moving towards a desired manifestation, that exact experience is by no means any sort of requirement to get a car. Also, you might want to give some thought as to why you want a specific car and see what comes up..it might reveal some blocks to you. For example, if the car is a nicer car that is more expensive, and represents luxury and abundance to you, it might be difficult to attract such a car if you are really feeling like you are not super ‘fancy’ or that you are not the type of person who would own a car like that. Also, our desire to attract specific objects is very closely linked to money as that is how we typically acquire them(though certainly not the ONLY means), and money seems to be a big issue based on your family’s experience with money, so that is likely playing a role.
You seem to have a lot on your mind right now, and that is understandable…one of the best things you can do right now is maybe stop putting so much focus on whatever it is you want because I gather that it is probably not making you feel that great most of the time, and just deal with feeling good for the sake of it. Set some more general intentions and desires that don’t evoke so much resistance. And once you start raising your energy, you will start to see some positive manifestations..they may or may not be related to what you want specifically, but these experiences will boost your belief in LOA, which in turn, increases the level of trust.
Hi Kelli,
Thank you so much for responding. I really do feel sort of overwhelmed right now with college and getting older and such. I been working on raising my vibration and “acting as if” but I feel kind of weird and I’m not too sure how to act as if I have recieved. Also, I have suffered from depression since I was rather young and used to self harm due to my extremely low self confidence. I’m completely clean now and very happy about that! However, I still suffer from low self confidence sometimes and I know that that isn’t good when working with the LOA. I know I’m super young and shouldn’t be feeling so stressed but I’m very scared that I won’t be able to manifest anything I want and will be stuck in a life of unhappiness like my whole family has been. Like I said, I want to be an actress and I’ve been reading The Secret which has helped but I’m sooo confused on how people manifest. Like how do they not doubt? How do they let go? How do they act as if while letting go?
Thank you again for responding
Hi Mekelah
Sorry for the delay in responding..I didn’t do too much online over the last few days because of the holiday. That is great you are no longer doing that…that shows right there what sort of inner strength and power you have. We all have confidence issues to some degree so don’t beat yourself up too much about that. What I would suggest is reconditioning your mind to start seeing yourself in a different light. Some great ways to do that would be to make a list every morning of all the good things about you and read it out loud in front of a mirror, write down at the end of the day all the good things you did, no matter how small, and think about what things you are good at and make time to do them more often.
The very fact that you are aware of LOA and have decided you don’t want to live the same type of life as your family means that you won’t. You already have a greater awareness that there are other options, and that your ‘fate’ can be whatever you decide it will be.
I think you have a lot of anxiety right now because you are thinking about so many different aspects of your life, and very far into the future. What I would do in this immediate moment is just focus on getting the anxiety under control, and think about what small steps you could take right now that would make you feel like you are moving towards what you want–it don’t take big giant leaps that make you feel scared in a ‘bad’ way. It might be reading a book about financial planning for young people or taking an acting class.
Really make time to do things that make you feel good..I can’t stress the importance of this enough because once you start feeling better overall, you will begin to see manifestations. Your energy will be higher, which will naturally change your mindset even without specifically working on shifting specific beliefs. You will start seeing yourself differently. You will get ideas and inspirations on your next steps. In this higher energy state, LOA will naturally make more sense to you and you won’t feel as much anxiety about trying to ‘do it.’
Hi Kelly
I would like to take this opportunity to wish you and Ryan a Very Happy Peaceful Christmas and everything that is good for you in 2015.
Love
Dominic aka John Lennon Cohen