The law of attraction is all about becoming a co-creator with the Universe, a force I believe is very loving and wants to hook us up with all sorts of awesome stuff. But, in order to make the most of this relationship, we have to understand some core things. Enjoy
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Podcast #50: Law of Attraction: The Universe Doesn’t ‘Care’

Great podcast Kelli. I agree so much the Universe can’t bring us what we aren’t a match to. And it emphasizes all the more the importance of feeling good before we get our stuff. Some people want to try to find a shortcut, but truly there are none.
Hi Brandon
Thanks so much, so glad you liked it. You are right we need to find a way to cultivate those energies before we have a reason to…our mind makes a very compelling argument not to and we have to be vigilant against that 😉
I think too, there are some people (myself included), who are just completely content with being miserable. Yeah, we get happy sometimes, but it doesn’t last because we don’t believe it can last. I feel like this applies to the LOA too, like if you are desperate for a boyfriend (to use your example), the Universe might send you a boyfriend, but he might not be any good for you. Or the Universe could just never send you one because you are so content being miserable about it. I think the hardest thing to do is to just relax and go with the flow.
Hi Emjay
You used the word’ content’ but I suspect you actually mean comfortable. If you were totally okay with feeling that way I imagine a blog like mine would hold very little appeal because you would have no interest in getting happier. You are right it can be hard to relax and go with the flow. This is a process for sure and given what you have said here, there is a good chance a big part of your struggle may be trying to reach for emotional states that are really far from where you are now. Let yourself feel your feelings and reach for the next better feeling thought–it might not be super- ‘positive’ but it’s a step in the right direction.