Law of Attraction: How to Make Poisonous Jealousy Work for You

So, Ryan’s really been feeling the desire to spread some law of attraction knowledge, and I’m never one to turn down good content for the blog that I think will help all my lovely readers out there…enjoy 

He wanted to split my head in two like a melon. I could tell.

After explaining how he could subscribe to my blog to see all of my travel pictures from Fiji, Bali, Thailand and Costa Rica he deadpanned, “No, PLEASE don’t remind me of your life,” He glared at me for a second.

In the following moment a relaxed laugh demonstrated that he, like most folks, carried that playful, “I’m not too jealous but shit I’d love to change places with ya” type energy.

This is not a healthy energy for law of attraction manifestors to carry and it’s gotta be cleaned up if you want to live in paradise or insert-dream-here, but this energy can lead to a deeper, more sinister jealous energy.

Snow Mutiny Plus Digital Nomad Damnation

While my New Jersey friends were battered by a devastating blizzard I decided to have some fun with them. I noted something about a bit of snow in NJ then I posted a crystal clear image of a beautiful weather day from here in Rivas, Costa Rica.

A few of my buddies playfully busted my balls, saying not to pour salt in the wounds. Kelli playfully noted how a Facebook mutiny of my profile was set to unfold.

All relaxed, fun energy, all good, no Bad LOA Medicine yet. But the playful banter brought me back to a nasty situation, one dripping with poisonous, repelling, mental illness-fed jealousy. It all had to do with my digital nomad lifestyle.

I Googled “digital nomad” last week and found an inspired read featuring a few well known digital nomads. No I was not on the list. For once. Hehe. Anyway, as these women explained how they built their online empires from exotic locales – chick heavy feature, which I did not complain about (luv ya Kelli) – I smelled a foul, decaying stench emanating from the comments section.

I scrolled down the page. I saw insanity. One- Flew- Over- the -Cuckoo’s- Nest- type insanity. The Shining- type mental illness. Or insert your Jack Nicholson movie of choice here.

Sick puppies attacked these inspired folks. The comments section was rife with intense, seething jealousy. These demonic denizens of the dark cast a pall on the light, playful, high energy piece that was the blog post above.

These comment leeches criticized the digital nomad dames for 101 things, from being selfish, to being lucky to live that life, to being greedy since they were enjoying these paradises without contributing anything useful (Uhh….duh, you dolts….these folks spend something called “money” in these countries).

I care not to relay the putrid purveyor’s pablum; let’s just say that they were about the most jealous, envious group of lower energies I had seen in quite a while.

Why Poison?

Feeling jealous creates this energy:

“Dream I want to live more than anything, stay the FRICK away from me because I CANNOT HAVE YOU!”

Sounds weird, right? Here’s how it works. Let’s say you look at Kelli and I for example,or insert any situation/people in your mind of which you may feel jealous. You feel a strong sense of deep, hateful jealousy at our globetrotting ways. Sick of seeing me laughing the day away in Costa Rica. That bastard.

Anyway, since Kelli and I are energetically aligned with this life, the second you feel jealous of us and our lifestyle you send a clear, overpowering, energetic signal to the Universe: “That digital nomad lifestyle is impossible for me. I can’t have it.”

Since the Universe cannot take a joke, well, it doesn’t take Nostradamus to see what happens next: the digital nomad lifestyle becomes impossible for you. You can’t have it. You will literally repel the ideas, people and circumstances which would help you manifest such a life in a fun, playful manner.

Instead of subscribing to Blogging from Paradise—shameless plug– you will say; “Damn that handsome guy with the strong jawline who balls from Bali.” (the “handsome” and “strong jawline” attributes are based on feedback polls offered by my readers, not on an inflated opinion of self)

You build like zero trust in The Universe. You create your own miserable, stale, sour cake, and you eat that crap too. All your fault. All your jealousy. All your poison. BUT….there is a way to may jealousy work for you…..

How to Make Jealousy Work for You

Jealousy points out your stuff.

Or, as Wifey Kelli would say, jealousy points out your shit.

Stuff = Shit = Every Goldang, Damaging, Poisonous Limiting Belief Which Your Feeble, Flitting Monkey Mind Needs To Release To Make Your Dreams Come True.

Example

Let’s look at those intensely jealous folks who commented on the digital nomad post.

Their jealousy manifested as hate and criticism. But it was rooted in debilitating, repelling limiting beliefs.

Their Stuff/Shit/Limiting Beliefs = I cannot travel regularly because I have a job, I cannot quit my job to become a digital nomad because I’d run out of money or lose my benefits or “stability”(yeah right, I call bullshit on that one in a world of change and flux), I cannot sell my home, You digital nomads are lucky and I am unlucky….and so on, and so on…..and so on, and so on…..

Jealousy is a poisonous energy rife with your ego’s bullshit limiting beliefs but if you’re willing to sit in your mental filth, to become aware of these bullshit limiting beliefs, you can: write them down on a piece of paper and burn that paper.

Burning the paper is a powerful cleansing practice. Once you tell those limiting beliefs to hit the road they will find it tougher and tougher to squeeze their way into your mind.

But like my lovely wife always likes to remind you, the tool itself means nothing, it is the energy. So feel free to use something else to symbolically kick these beliefs to the curb if it strikes your fancy.

After the “Jealousy Limiting Belief” Exorcism

OK….you’ve observed your limiting beliefs by sitting with your jealous feelings. It likely wasn’t pleasant but it was freeing. You listed each limiting belief on a piece of paper. Remember, every limiting belief you adhere to is an absolute lie. You are whole and complete. As is.

So this means your jealousies, built on a foundation of limiting beliefs, are complete and utter bull dooky. You burned the piece of paper with your jealousy limiting beliefs. Over a sink or tub please. It’s not time to hit the ethers yet. Kelli has many more blog posts for you to read and enjoy in bodily form.

What’s Next?

Once you’ve exorcised these jealous, lower energies you’ll be like: “Oh wow! I can live this freeing life. I feel like I can vacation in Fiji. Well, maybe it feels like a quantum leap but it’s time to subscribe to Ryan’s blog. Or maybe it’s time to learn more about getting my master’s in night school. Or maybe it’s time to quit my job to become an entrepreneur.”

I’ve no clue what Your Spirit Guide/intuition will tell you. Just understand that when you extract the poison, you betcha that goodness, wholeness and light are left. The whole, light being that is you will become irresistible to high energy, fun, ideas, people and circumstances, all of which will help you manifest your dreams.

Jealousy Is a Repelling Energy But….

…..if you sit with your jealous feelings, patiently identify your untrue limiting beliefs which feed the jealousy, and clear these energies with a burning session, you will let in love, freedom and fun in all forms. I am living proof. Former admitted jealous bastard here. It pays to clear the crap to make room for fun and freedom.

I went from: “Damn those lucky bastards” to “Wouldn’t it be cool to live that digital nomad life” to “Hey it’s fun and freeing to create and connect” to “Damn I’m living the dream!” through this process of sending my jealousies to the ethers.

You can do it too. Promise.

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