{"id":6232,"date":"2017-08-01T09:05:06","date_gmt":"2017-08-01T13:05:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.livelifemadetoorder.com\/blog\/blog\/?p=6232"},"modified":"2021-08-02T05:47:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-02T05:47:30","slug":"can-law-attraction-help-discover-life-purpose","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.livelifemadetoorder.com\/blog\/can-law-attraction-help-discover-life-purpose\/","title":{"rendered":"Can the Law of Attraction Help You Discover Your Life ‘Purpose?’"},"content":{"rendered":"

How can I know my life purpose or at least how to discover it?<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Studying a concept like the law of attraction more deeply can be very helpful in many respects, way beyond manifesting specific things like money or relationships. <\/span><\/p>\n

Understanding it is a Universal law and not a \u2018tool\u2019 used expressly to get \u2018stuff\u2019 helps you realize how focusing on your \u2018being\u2019 and nurturing your energy can lead you to manifest all sorts of wonderful things that will help you become the best version of yourself, and allow you to do, be and have all you want in life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Most people with an interest in personal growth feel a deep need to live a meaningful life; we want to find our \u2018purpose.\u2019 We have a sense there is a specific reason we are here, and until we find this reason, we may feel unfulfilled. We feel like all the time living not \u2018on purpose\u2019 is wasted. <\/span><\/p>\n

This search can cause a great deal of anxiety. We feel a lot of pressure to \u2018figure\u2019 it out. And when we have a better understanding of energy and the attraction process, this state of being isn\u2019t conducive to manifesting the insights we are seeking. <\/span><\/p>\n

Here are a few thoughts that I hope will make you feel a bit better about this search. <\/span><\/p>\n

What I Think Our Purpose Is<\/span><\/h4>\n

I think our primary purpose here is to enjoy our life and contribute to our human experience through our own experience and perspective. <\/span><\/p>\n

Each of us is a unique slice of \u2018all that is\u2019 and the Universe experiencing itself. <\/span><\/p>\n

So you are already \u2018on purpose\u2019 by the sheer fact of being here. Now does this mean that you should ignore that nagging feeling you are meant for something greater and better, find a way to be content with your life just as it is now, and keep chugging on with whatever you are doing?<\/span><\/p>\n

Definitely not. This perspective is simply offered as a potential \u2018salve\u2019 to the anxiety you might feel because you haven\u2019t figured out your \u2018purpose\u2019 yet, you worry you are making the wrong choices, and that your life isn\u2019t meaningful or whatever. <\/span><\/p>\n

When looking at ‘purpose’ in this way, you see it is more about \u2018being\u2019 rather than \u2018doing.\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n

But because we are here in bodies, the \u2018doing\u2019 is going to be a major part of our experience here, and we are going to feel compelled to fill our days doing something.<\/span><\/p>\n

We want to enjoy that \u2018something.\u2019 We want that \u2018something\u2019 to be an expression of our values, our passions, our skills, our talents. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t necessarily think we have a specific purpose that we are tasked with figuring out once we take human form, and we best figure it out or else we will end up living an unhappy, unfulfilled life. <\/span><\/p>\n

If our purpose is to \u2018be\u2019 then from there, we get to decide<\/em> what is the best expression of that. The things we feel passionate about, the subjects that interest us,etc…can be great clues to help us figure this out. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know this is a very cliched question, but it is really, really helpful for getting at the root of what we really want: If money wasn\u2019t an issue, how would you want to spend your days? What would you do for a living? <\/span><\/p>\n

What excites you? What are you good at? What makes you happy? What comes easy and naturally to you? <\/span><\/p>\n

Being Paves the Way for Doing<\/span><\/h4>\n

If our energy is what determines what shows up in our life, then again, focusing on our \u2018being\u2019 is the best way to manifest all we need to help us on our journey.<\/span><\/p>\n

Our energy not only determines what specific \u2018things\u2019 show up in our life, it also is the starting point for thoughts and insights. When our energy game is \u2018tight\u2019 we are in better \u2018contact\u2019 with our higher self. The clarity comes. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we focus on the energy, the actions will reveal themselves. We will have a better sense of how we want to spend our days. The decisions and changes we need to make become clear to us, and we are more comfortable making them.<\/span><\/p>\n

The best way to create an energy conducive to these insights is doing what you can to enjoy your life now<\/em>, prioritizing your happiness and well-being.<\/span><\/p>\n

At the end of the day, that is all<\/em> you want anyway, and is something you can work towards at any moment–nothing needs to change first. <\/span><\/p>\n

This energy will allow you to manifest more things that will make you feel good.<\/span><\/p>\n

For many, a sense of purpose is tied to helping others in some way–there are lots of ways you can help other people now, that will provide a similar emotional benefit. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can volunteer your time. You can help the people in your life in whatever way feels inspired. <\/span><\/p>\n

Getting at the Root<\/span><\/h4>\n

Figuring out how you want to feel is the key to gaining clarity for living a purposeful life. Everything we want is because we think it would make us feel a way we want to feel. <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Once we get a better sense of the feelings we crave in our life, the confusion we feel over our \u2018path\u2019 begins to dissipate. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we pinpoint the feelings, we get a better sense of what kinds of work and experiences will provide these feelings. <\/span><\/p>\n

When faced with choices between different options, we consider which ones will give us the feelings we are after, and we base the decision off that.<\/span><\/p>\n

As we engage in experiences that allow us to feel the feelings we want to feel, that energy gets stronger, and we manifest more things that will give us those feelings. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If we are willing to follow our feelings, we will always be on the \u2018right\u2019 path.<\/span><\/p>\n

So how do you want to feel? In your work or other activities, what specific ways would you like to help people? How do you want to make them<\/em> feel?<\/span><\/p>\n

This Will Look Different for Everyone<\/span><\/h4>\n

If our true \u2018purpose\u2019 is experiencing life from our own unique perspective, and being happy, and not necessarily what we are \u2018doing\u2019 this can make us look at \u2018purpose\u2019 in a very different way. <\/span><\/p>\n

Living our \u2018purpose\u2019 may look very different than we envision it. <\/span><\/p>\n

We often think of \u2018purpose\u2019 as a very action-oriented thing–it is something we are \u2018doing.<\/span><\/p>\n

And like I said before, living your purpose will most likely involve some sort of \u2018doing,\u2019 most likely in the realm of your career. <\/span><\/p>\n

I imagine most people interested in living a purposeful life won\u2019t find working a job just for a paycheck or spending all their free time watching TV very fulfilling.<\/span><\/p>\n

This isn\u2019t the sort of \u2018being\u2019 they have in mind. <\/span><\/p>\n

What makes people happy and feel fulfilled is very, very different. Many people may feel pressure to pursue some really \u2018big\u2019 goal, or help people in some way that may involve some great sacrifice on their part.<\/span><\/p>\n

With an interest in personal development and spirituality, you might feel like you must become a life coach or energy healer, and teach others these concepts. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you feel drawn to these sorts of things, great. But if not that\u2019s fine too.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your purpose is to be happy–that\u2019s really it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Not everyone might feel drawn to pursuing some path where they are trying to save the world, or living in some third world country helping the most unfortunate of the unfortunate. <\/span><\/p>\n

You may have found great benefit in pursuing personal growth, but may not have any interest in having that be your profession–no problem. If you feel passionate about sharing what you learned, great. But you are under no obligation to do so. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you are happy, you are contributing to the betterment of the world–let\u2019s not forget there is a collective vibration, not just individual ones. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you are being paid for your work, that means there is some sort of need for your services, and you are helping people in some way, contributing in some way. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t hesitate to pursue any line of work that you would find enjoyable because it isn\u2019t \u2018spiritual\u2019 \u2018purposeful\u2019 or \u2018helpful\u2019 enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think that your purpose must necessarily be expressed through what you do for a living. <\/span><\/p>\n

You Can Get On Purpose at Any Moment<\/span><\/h4>\n

The great thing about viewing happiness as your purpose is you can begin enjoying a meaningful life even if you aren\u2019t sure what you want to do yet, you feel like you can\u2019t take the actions you want to take right in this immediate<\/em> moment, or it might take awhile to get where you ultimately want to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

You won\u2019t hesitate to take that first step because you get overwhelmed thinking how many may lay ahead on your journey. That your life might not immediately change, and it will be a process, won\u2019t feel so discouraging. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can truly begin enjoying the journey, and won\u2019t focus so heavily on the destination. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t hesitate to pursue a specific path that appeals to you, or put your energy and focus into one particular endeavor, but know that ultimately no one specific thing is absolutely essential to your happiness, that there is no one thing you are pre-determined to be doing. <\/span><\/p>\n

This more relaxed approach to being ‘on purpose’ is the very thing that will reveal to you more specific ways you can live a life that will make you happiest, that will feel meaningful. <\/span><\/p>\n

The Importance of Knowing Yourself<\/span><\/h4>\n

So much of our confusion stems from a lack of self-awareness and self-reflection. We really don\u2019t know ourselves very well at all. <\/span><\/p>\n

We go after what we think we should want, not really taking any time to consider if it is what we actually want. We aim to please other people. We want to live a certain type of life so we will be viewed a certain way by others. <\/span><\/p>\n

We don\u2019t define success for ourselves, and go by other people\u2019s definitions, and even if we have met these benchmarks, we often don\u2019t feel like much of a winner. <\/span><\/p>\n

We may have given up on our dreams even before we allowed ourselves to really take a crack at them because we didn\u2019t think it was possible, we were scared or because we couldn\u2019t see every single step right from the outset, we couldn\u2019t bring ourselves to take that first one. <\/span><\/p>\n

We may be embarrassed about who we really are. We worry we can\u2019t be ourselves because other people wouldn\u2019t understand, because of our culture, our parents, our religion. <\/span><\/p>\n

Getting to know ourselves better–and giving ourselves permission to be who we are<\/em>— is a crucial component of personal growth in general, and manifesting in particular. <\/span><\/p>\n

The energy of authenticity is very powerful from a manifesting perspective. The better we know ourselves, the more successfully and easily we can align with the things that will bring us the most enjoyment, that will be the best reflection of the energies and feelings with which we want our lives to be filled. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we know ourselves better, we have a better idea of what would truly make us happy. When we know ourselves better, it gives us the courage to pursue what we want because we know these things would make us happy. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we know ourselves better, we more easily insulate ourselves from the opinions, judgments and criticisms of other people because we<\/em> know we are doing what is right for us<\/em>, and there is less insecurity and uncertainty to be triggered. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we know ourselves better, decisions that seem hard to make don\u2019t seem that hard any more, things that once seemed very confusing are no longer so. <\/span><\/p>\n

So who are you? What do you value most in life? What do you want your life to look like? What do you want your life to feel like? What are your strengths? What are you good at? <\/span><\/p>\n

If you were free of fear, doubt, worrying what other people would think about you, what would you do with your life? What changes would you make to it now? What would you add? What would you subtract?<\/span><\/p>\n

These might not be questions you can answer fully right away. But asking them sincerely is the first step to manifesting the answers. It will actually open up energies that will allow you to start manifesting whatever it is you need to make this vision a reality.<\/p>\n

Your Turn<\/span><\/h4>\n

What did you think of the post? Anything resonate in particular? What advice would you give for finding purpose and meaning in life?<\/p>\n

Have a question you think would make a good blog post? Submit it here<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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