{"id":4472,"date":"2016-04-20T21:00:03","date_gmt":"2016-04-21T01:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.livelifemadetoorder.com\/blog\/blog\/?p=4472"},"modified":"2021-07-31T10:40:23","modified_gmt":"2021-07-31T10:40:23","slug":"3-tips-for-slaying-self-consciousness-with-the-law-of-attraction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.livelifemadetoorder.com\/blog\/3-tips-for-slaying-self-consciousness-with-the-law-of-attraction\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Tips for Slaying Self Consciousness with the Law of Attraction"},"content":{"rendered":"

It’s been awhile since Ryan the manifesting master has done a\u00a0post around here and I’m happy to bring you his unique brand of writing and manifesting advice. Enjoy…<\/em><\/p>\n

I styled my coif into a Triceratops haircut. Earlier this week. Before I got a mini-fade.<\/p>\n

I’m often spotted wearing my face. Or, wearing a Blogging from Paradise T-shirt. With my requisite grille.<\/p>\n

I shave my head. Once a year. Or two. No. Not two heads. Two years.<\/p>\n

I sure ain’t over myself but do a decent job routinely slaying my self consciousness. From writing colorful, detailed, sometimes bawdy blog posts to self-deprecating the shit out of myself, I generally do not take myself seriously. Triceratops haircut. Shaved head. I routinely wear a Gizmo T-shirt. Which a Costa Rican man fell in love with. But that’s another story.<\/p>\n

Self-consciousness ain’t a big issue with this fool. Because I’ve molded a more confident, clear, detached vibe. How? You guessed it: with the law of attraction.<\/p>\n

Being Boy Versus Doing Dolt<\/h4>\n

I once was the online version of a cloistered nun. I left my cyber cave as frequently as the arrival of the Haley Bop comet. Rarely spotted on my blog. Or comment fields. Or publishing guest posts. I was bloggana non grata. Which twas not a good thing. Because unless I mastered instant manifestation I couldn’t grow a prospering business from the cyber sidelines.<\/p>\n

My overpowering sense of self-consciousness made me huddle in a cyber cave. I feared \u201clooking like an idiot.\u201d I regularly felt embarrassed if I even thought of being bold, or humorous, in a public setting. Cyber or otherwise.<\/p>\n

Turns out, I had to learn \u2013 the hard way, because I resisted intuitive nudges \u2013 that you can’t slay self-consciousness by attempting to \u201cout-do\u201d it. Because the law of attraction is a law of being. Not doing.<\/p>\n

Your doings in and of themselves mean little or nothing. But your being means everything. And the being\/feeling you embody while doing, well hell, that means everything.<\/p>\n

I shifted my energy to become increasingly less self-conscious. I progressively gave a rat’s ass less what people thought about me. I didn’t much fear \u201clooking like an idiot.\u201d I shaved my head. I wrote from my heart. I added more colorful, or sometimes, off color stories to my blog posts and eBooks.<\/p>\n

Never been happier. Never been having more fun. Never felt more free. And yes, consequently, never have more folks knew who I was. I crave not fame but enjoy inspiring the legions of Blogging from Paradise minions to retire to the tropics through smart blogging.<\/p>\n

So as we proceed, hold this idea seed in your noggin: these tips are for being, not doing. Or, step into the feeling\/being of each tip to make self-consciousness your bitch.<\/p>\n

1: Hang with Free Spirits (or….Folks Who Don’t Give a Hoot)<\/h4>\n

Kelli and I are weird. We are funny. We are free spirits.<\/p>\n

We’ve built our lives on not caring what people think, say or do in response to us being us. This inspires us to feel\/be even less concerned with the opinions of others. With dissolves any self-conscious, paralyzing energy from our beings.<\/p>\n

When you’re being NSC \u2013 Non Self Conscious \u2013 other free spirits will align with you, support you and inspire you to be who you really are. Hang with ’em. Follow Kelli’s blog. Read my law of attraction eBooks. Feast on our free energies. Bathe in our fun vibe. Bask in our stupendous glow. Birds of a liberated feather should flock together. Allow more of these \u201cdo not care\u201d folks into your experience to care less about the opinions of others, yourself.<\/p>\n

2: Do Freeing Stuff….Even if You Feel Hella Self Conscious at First<\/h4>\n

Kelli gazed at me with a smile.<\/p>\n

I was running down the beach in Manual Antonio, Costa Rica with a 6 foot long piece of driftwood. Par for the course. Because I carried small boulders on the beach in Savusavu, Fiji. And up small hills in Rivas, Costa Rica.<\/p>\n

People often stare at me while I engage in these unorthodox exercise rituals but I got guns to grow. Gotta take care of that ticker too.<\/p>\n

The old, heavily self-conscious me would have pooped my pants even thinking about running up and down a beach holding a log. Because I believed folks would deem me nuts. I was so bat shit crazy back then, I even felt I’d get \u201cin trouble\u201d for such silly shenanigans.<\/p>\n

Thank the gods that the new me just does stuff that feels a bit uncomfortable but fun, and freeing.<\/p>\n

Here’s how the law of attraction comes into play: the more you do this stuff, having fun, the self conscious energies in your being dissolve and you’ll attract more bold ideas, people and circumstances through which you can grow.<\/p>\n

I used to be as chatty as a church mouse. Now I BS with just about anybody when out and about. I can strike up a conversation with a telephone pole. And make a subscriber out of it.<\/p>\n

3: Let Go the Self Conscious Schlubs<\/h4>\n

Former schlub talking here. I know how it goes. But I also know how self-conscious poison easily seeps into your being if you hang with self-conscious folks.<\/p>\n

The folks who don’t want you to \u201clook like an a-hole\u201d if you’re just having fun, being silly and acting a fool. The douchebags who take themselves seriously. The clowns who do everything in their power to humiliate free spirits, and other folks with balls.<\/p>\n

Gently release these folks. Meaning, kick their asses out the do’. Meaning, let go these acquaintances and follow tip #1.<\/p>\n

Again, you will align with all energies free, bold and empowered, and you’ll have a boatload of fun if you release self-conscious, serious, staid folks who can’t laugh at themselves.<\/p>\n

The folks around you will always respond to your energy. Inside-out deal here. Vibe higher. Follow your fun. Hang with energetic dynamos. Let go the lame louts. Do what feels fun and freeing to you. Even if you feel a bit scared to dive in and be different.<\/p>\n

Take it from a guy spotted running around exotic beaches with small boulders and young, firm saplings; you’ll be floored at the deluge of fun people, ideas and circumstances you’ll allow in when you bitch slap silly self conscious tendencies.<\/p>\n

Call to Action<\/h4>\n

Since I know you’re tuning in for law of attraction tips, fuggedabout my blog. Dive right into one of my eBooks.<\/p>\n

Read 4 Reasons Why the LOA Isn’t Working for You <\/a>to knife through pesky manifesting blocks.<\/p>\n

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