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It would be great if there were these set, ummistakable signs, like a notification from the Cosmic FedEx your manifestation has left the facility and is now in transit, or your right pinky finger beginning to tingle from 8 to noon daily in the three days preceding the arrival of your stuff.<\/span><\/p>\n This post is courtesy of a question one of my very regular readers asked me in one of her comments.<\/span><\/p>\n She wanted to know about signs that what we want to manifest is on its way. Lots of good questions lately that were juicy enough to turn into a full-fledged blog post, so thanks for that question-askers!<\/span><\/p>\n The interesting thing about this question is on one hand the answer is quite simple, but on another a bit complex.<\/span><\/p>\n What we want can manifest in so many ways, and we can’t really know how it will exactly come to fruition.<\/span><\/p>\n What we have our sights set on may not be the best representation of our desire and something else not even on our radar is brewing in the background.<\/span><\/p>\n We don’t know when the perfect time is for something to manifest.<\/span><\/p>\n Our mind can really get in the way with this work, and it intellectualizes the process. We want to know the exact steps to do something, which is why we can get so hung up on techniques without realizing it is about how we feel.<\/span><\/p>\n It wants to know exactly what to look for so we know whether what we are doing is ‘working’ or not.<\/span><\/p>\n It is always on the look out for that ‘proof’ and a reason to feel better.<\/span><\/p>\n So, I may not be able to provide the type of answer we so crave, but what I can do is talk a bit about how to know you are on the right track, and that you are moving closer to what you want.<\/span><\/p>\n So, let’s get on with that shall we?<\/span><\/p>\n I know this may not be the most satisfying of answers but it is probably the biggest clue because we attract based on our primary feelings in the moment.<\/span><\/p>\n When we are feeling good, or at least better, most of the time, we are aligning with all the things we want that will make us feel those same good feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n I could end the post right here but I won’t.<\/span><\/p>\n In all seriousness though, our state of mind and how we are feeling determines everything. When you are able to start feeling better about getting what you want, that means the resistance is diminishing, the trust is building, the need to figure out ‘how’ is weakening, and that combo is the perfect recipe for manifestation.<\/span><\/p>\n You may not feel all lovey and in tune with the Universe every second and that’s fine, but when you really start to realize the importance of how we feel, you will have an easier time allowing yourself to do whatever it is that gives you those warm fuzzies, no matter how ‘frivolous’ or ‘silly’ it is, no matter how unrelated the activity is to your manifestation.<\/span><\/p>\n Remember you want whatever it is you want because you are after a particular type of feeling…if you are managing to create those feelings now, you are without a doubt lining up with all sorts of awesome stuff that will feel the same exact way.<\/span><\/p>\n The journey is what it is really all about, and the process of getting whatever it is we want should feel just as good as how we think we will feel when we get our ‘stuff.’ You really aren’t in the destination too long.<\/span><\/p>\n The key is being patient, not getting attached to specific outcomes, constantly ruminating on how you think what you want will come to you, and realizing that everything that happens is serving you and helping you get where you need to be, which brings me to my next little nugget…<\/span><\/p>\n This is the part of the process that can really throw us for a loop and we really don’t like. We start doing all our little exercises to raise our energy, we have set our intentions and we are just waiting for everything to get more awesome.<\/span><\/p>\n So, when we start manifesting things we don’t like, we wonder what the hell is going on. We were loaded up with expectations of what the process was supposed to be like, and how our manifestation was going to come.<\/span><\/p>\n We know we shouldn’t do that, but we just can’t help it sometimes. Our mind just goes there. Happens to the best of us.<\/span><\/p>\n But, all this crap coming up is actually a sign of forward movement, so stop freaking out about it so much. It’s all good.<\/span><\/p>\n Sure, you may not be loving it in the moment, but if you can remember this, it will take the sting out a bit. You’ll see the ‘lessons’ more quickly, and be able to make the necessary shifts with less difficulty.<\/span><\/p>\n You are already on the path to what you want. The Universe knows what you want. You really can’t stop things, though we can certainly slow shit down.<\/span><\/p>\n You see, you have a whole bunch of resistance that you picked up from a variety of sources, from religion to television, and you really had no clue how freaking powerful you are.<\/span><\/p>\n All this crap was shaping your reality and now that you have ‘seen the light’ and have switched gears, it all needs to come up to get you where you really want to be.<\/span><\/p>\n All these ‘unwanted’ manifestations are not to mess with you, or random. They are there to help you see what still needs to be cleaned up. They are there to help you get on the path that will bring you what you want most easily.<\/span><\/p>\n Without them, you would have no clue as to where you were at vibrationally or what was still standing in your way, and manifesting what you want would be exponentially harder.<\/span><\/p>\n Some of these manifestations remove things from the equation that you may have difficulty removing yourself, like the job you hate but are too afraid to quit, or the shitty boyfriend who is totally dragging you down but are too afraid to break up with because it seems more tolerable than the alternative of being with no one.<\/span><\/p>\n It is kind of like if you wanted to make a finished basement in your house. Before you can make it this new, shiny, cozy space, you have to clear out all the junk that has been stored there over the years. And then you can fulfill the vision for your room.<\/span><\/p>\n I talked about these stepping stones in my post the other day, but will do so again because it is a key component of answering this question.<\/span><\/p>\n And some people reading this may not have read that, and even if you did, you could probably use a reminder because we have a tendency to kind of poop on them or get all frustrated because the exact thing we want still hasn’t shown up.<\/span><\/p>\n And when we do that, we screw up our energy. We still have some of that good energy banked for sure, but again, we slow things down.<\/span><\/p>\n Often times, lining up with things we really want, or things we may have a lot of resistance around can be more of a process. We can’t just let the manifestation in full force in its full form.<\/span><\/p>\n Then there are the types of manifestations that naturally unfold over time. For example, if you just started a new business, you may not get 50 new customers your first week. You probably wouldn’t want that to happen anyway because it would feel overwhelming and you probably wouldn’t enjoy it too much.<\/span><\/p>\n Anyway..so, you will start to see manifestations that make you think what you want is actually possible.<\/span><\/p>\n You may start noticing certain things more that you didn’t notice before.<\/span><\/p>\n You are hoping to meet someone after a string of bad relationships, and more ‘nice guys’ seem to be coming into your orbit lately, which makes you feel like there is one for you out there.<\/span><\/p>\n You just started an online business, and you are meeting more people in your niche who are relaying their success stories, and it makes you feel success can happen for you too.<\/span><\/p>\n You are trying to get more freelancing work, and you are noticing an uptick in opportunities that seem like a good match for you. You may not want to apply to certain ones, or you may not be offered every one you get, but you realize the opportunities are there, and the right ones for you can come along.<\/span><\/p>\n The key with these types of manifestations is to realize the message they are sending. They show you are lining up with what you want.<\/span><\/p>\n They may not be big, exciting manifestations all the time, but that doesn’t diminish their importance, what they represent.<\/span><\/p>\n They represent something quite big, something to celebrate.<\/span><\/p>\n Ah, the ‘almost’ manifestations. These can really start to mess with your mind. You set an intention to get something, and you attract a situation that is not quite what you wanted. It has some good points, but there are some elements that don’t sit quite well.<\/span><\/p>\n A job you would love with a salary you don’t love so much.<\/span><\/p>\n The guy who seems great, but is so busy with his work, you don’t see him nearly as much as you would like.<\/span><\/p>\n A great freelance opportunity but the client is a giant pain in the ass.<\/span><\/p>\n What’s a girl (or guy) to do? Is this the manifestation? Am I being too picky, greedy, choosy,etc..? Is my perspective screwed up and I should be trying to look at it in a more positive way?<\/span><\/p>\n These manifestations are popping up to show you have a choice. They can help you solidify exactly what it is you want, and if something doesn’t fit the bill…buh bye.<\/span><\/p>\n You are creating your reality, and as such, you get to decide whether something that pops in is something you want or something you don’t.<\/span><\/p>\n You get to be discerning.<\/span><\/p>\n There is never just one shot, or one opportunity. There are infinite.<\/span><\/p>\n When you start manifesting stuff like this, it shows you are moving closer for sure.<\/span><\/p>\n I remember several months back I was presented with an opportunity to produce content for a personal development website after having set some intentions I would like to attract that sort of work.<\/span><\/p>\n The pay was lower than I would normally work for, but I can write this stuff in my sleep, and the chance to expose myself to a larger audience was appealing.<\/span><\/p>\n I did a test article about law of attraction, and generally the feedback was good. In one part of my post I had noted about being able to attract all sorts of good things you want, and he said I should include examples of good things.<\/span><\/p>\n Really? People would need examples? I imagine most people know what the word ‘good’ means.<\/span><\/p>\n Something small, but it just didn’t sit right, and I got the sense that working with this person would be annoying, so I thanked him for the opportunity but said I didn’t think it was a good match.<\/span><\/p>\n When you are able to say no to these ‘almost’ manifestations you are sending a strong message about what you do want. That is some nice energy right there.<\/span><\/p>\n I hope that this post shed some light on how to tell you are moving towards what you want. I know it can be frustrating to not know what is happening behind the scenes and whether we are ‘close’ or not.<\/span><\/p>\n We are not fully trusting and we want some sign to help us get into that space. It’s normal.<\/span><\/p>\n But, we really can’t know all that is happening, and we can’t know when a manifestation is right on the doorstep, just waiting to walk through.<\/span><\/p>\n But, all of the above are sure-fire signs things are moving in the direction you want them to.<\/span><\/p>\n This underscores the importance of enjoying the journey, and finding ways to feel good now.<\/span><\/p>\n Lose yourself in the feel-good moments. Know your order has been placed, and it’s coming in some shape or form. It may look exactly like you picture it or it may be something completely different but feels just as good, or even better.<\/span><\/p>\n What did you think of the post? Anything resonate with you in particular? Do you have any insights to add as far as signs what you want is coming? Do you have a hard time being patient, and what do you do to get back into that state of trust and allowing? Looking forward to your comments as always!<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" It would be great if there were these set, ummistakable signs, like a notification from the Cosmic FedEx your manifestation has left the facility and is now in transit, or your right pinky finger beginning to tingle from 8 to noon daily in the three days preceding the arrival of your stuff. 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Obstacles and All Manners of Crap are Coming Up<\/span><\/h2>\n
The Stepping Stones<\/span><\/h2>\n
‘Almost’ Manifestations Where You Get to Make a Choice<\/span><\/h2>\n
In Closing…<\/span><\/h2>\n
Your Turn…<\/span><\/h2>\n