{"id":2609,"date":"2015-04-02T06:06:32","date_gmt":"2015-04-02T10:06:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.livelifemadetoorder.com\/blog\/blog\/?p=2609"},"modified":"2021-07-31T08:11:05","modified_gmt":"2021-07-31T08:11:05","slug":"law-of-attraction-everything-wrong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.livelifemadetoorder.com\/blog\/law-of-attraction-everything-wrong\/","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction: How Do You Make Things Right When Everything Seems to Be Wrong?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Is there just so much you want to fix in your life you are not quite sure where to start? Does the idea of feeling good now, when there is so much you don’t like now, seem like a tall order?<\/span><\/p>\n

Discovering how our reality really works, and who we really are, is literally life-changing. The idea we don’t have to put up with what we don’t want, and we can mold things just to our liking, can make us feel pretty great.<\/span><\/p>\n

We feel a lightness and a sense of hope. It is exciting to think all the desires that have been relegated to nothing more than fantasy or ‘pie in the sky’ can actually come to fruition.<\/span><\/p>\n

We can experience a huge sense of relief knowing we are not trapped.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, as many of us come to know when we start consciously creating our reality, the theory of law of attraction and actually putting it into practice can be worlds apart.<\/span><\/p>\n

Something that is supposed to be so simple feels incredibly difficult.<\/span><\/p>\n

And, this becomes even more obvious if we are mired down in all forms of crap, and want to change a lot of things about our life.<\/span><\/p>\n

We may start to feel anxious. We don’t know where to focus our energy. We may not even know what we want fully, we just know we don’t like what we have now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Knowing what we know now about how reality is created, even if we don’t fully buy into it 1 million percent on a level of feeling, can quickly make us less tolerant of our current situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

It is one thing to think you have to put up with a bunch of shit you don’t like, but really don’t think you can change, but discovering you don’t have to?<\/span><\/p>\n

That can amplify the pain and unhappiness that was already there, but was being suppressed.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you are one of those people who is just hating everything, and wants to give your life a complete overhaul by consciously applying the principles of attraction, here are some insights that should make the journey a whole lot easier.<\/span><\/p>\n

Know Nothing Needs to Happen Right Now to Start Feeling Better<\/span><\/h2>\n

Since our outer experience is a mirror of our inner world, we have to start on the inside. Nothing needs to change on the outside first to start feeling better. You don’t have to worry about making any bold decisions, or taking any sort of action right now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because we are so conditioned to act to make things happen, that urge can feel strong. But since there may not be much you can think to do right now, it creates a huge source of frustration, especially if you are unhappy with various elements of your current experience .<\/span><\/p>\n

You hate your job, you hate your spouse, you hate where you live, you hate not having enough money, you hate your body, you just hate everything.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s a sucky spot to be in, and since we are so used to living from the outside in, naturally we are going to look to how we can change the outside, hoping it will make us feel better inside.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, as you become more familiar with how law of attraction works, you realize that isn’t the most effective strategy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sure, you may make certain changes that bring a temporary sense of relief, but it will be just that..temporary.<\/span><\/p>\n

The energy that created such a clusterfuck is still there, and it will keep manifesting in some shape or form.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, this isn’t to say certain outside changes can’t help\u2014eventually all sorts of changes will be made. But, you have to work on getting things right internally first, and then acting from that space.<\/span><\/p>\n

That way is much easier and things will flow a lot more smoothly.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you realize you can start feeling better now, without anything having to change to allow you to feel better, your life as it is now will seem much more manageable.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sure, you still won’t like things, and want them to change, but it won’t seem as unbearable.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have to start examining your feelings, thoughts and beliefs now to see what may have led things to manifest as they have.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once you figure that out, you can work on shifting all of that. You don’t need to jump from despair to unbridled joy to start seeing changes, so don’t try to because you can’t anyway.<\/span><\/p>\n

But if you take what I said to heart, you will start seeing all sorts of great manifestations that will help carve out the path. You will start realizing things don’t need to change all at once to start feeling better.<\/span><\/p>\n

Focus on Just Feeling Better Overall<\/span><\/h2>\n

Again, since we are so oriented towards actions, we have a tendency to zero in on the problems and figure out how they can be solved. We have to dissect the issue and see what can be done.<\/span><\/p>\n

Without doing that, things can’t possibly improve, right? And no matter how painful it is to think about, and how frustrating it is to not be able to see how things could be different, we insist on focusing on it, all the while feeling like crap.<\/span><\/p>\n

This mode of operating is really sucky, and when you are doing this for multiple things that are really bothering you? Forget about it..it can feel like sheer torture.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, this isn’t how it has to be. You don’t need to figure anything out right now. You don’t even really have to focus much on what is happening, though you probably won’t be able to do that consistently, and it’s fine.<\/span><\/p>\n

Since our vibration is what creates our reality, raising that is the most effective way to start seeing improvements in our life.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t need to get one million percent happy. You don’t have to go into denial and pretend to like things about your life you just don’t\u2014you have preferences and that’s fine.<\/span><\/p>\n

Though it is necessary to find a perspective that genuinely makes you feel better. <\/b><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

If you commit to finding ways to make yourself feel better overall, you will be amazed at what starts to happen. You will start getting all sorts of ideas and inspirations. You will attract solutions to problems.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will be presented with opportunities. You will meet people who can help you in some way.<\/span><\/p>\n

Seeing this ‘proof’ will lighten things up, and you won’t feel so terrible anymore, even if certain things haven’t changed significantly.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will see manifestations that touch on all these areas you want to change, even if you haven’t put any focus on them specifically for any length of time,or even gave much thought to what you actually wanted.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, what can you do now that will ease some of the stress or create some relief? Don’t discount even the smallest of changes because they add up, and can make a big difference.<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe it is making more time for a hobby, or dropping a commitment that is draining you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perhaps you just need some more alone time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you have a pain in the ass client who takes up most of your time but makes up only a fraction of your income? Maybe you should think about ending that relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Does the idea of taking a break from the job search or the endless meet ups from the dating website create a sense of relief? If so, do it.<\/span><\/p>\n

I’m not gonna lie..your mind will fight you on this approach. It will constantly remind you how much you hate your life, and how many things are going wrong, and how you should be digging in and finding a way to make everything better.<\/span><\/p>\n

There is just so much that needs to be tended to, and it is your job to fix all of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, it really isn’t your job…the Universe can orchestrate things so much better than we can. We are no match for infinite possibilities and resources.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sorry mind..you’re awesome and useful in so many ways, but this just isn’t your department.<\/span><\/p>\n

Set Some General Intentions<\/span><\/h2>\n

If you have specific things you would like to manifest, that is great. Write them down, get some energy flowing towards them with some positive focus, and what have you.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, when you are in a position where everything seems to be wrong, and you want a total life makeover, all this specific focus can sometimes work against you.<\/span><\/p>\n

There is just so much you want to change, and so much that would need to be done. It feels overwhelming and discouraging.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have probably read over and over again about the importance of getting super specific with what you want down to the last detail, and then constantly thinking about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

And thinking you have to do that for 10 different things probably doesn’t feel that great, and all that visualizing, and focusing on such specific outcomes, won’t do much if there is no genuine good feeling behind it.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, anyone in this position would probably really benefit from setting some more general intentions. You don’t need to worry about getting super-specific.<\/span><\/p>\n

These more general intentions can help flesh out what you are really looking to accomplish, which is producing certain feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because as I have probably said a million times before on this good old blog\u2014you are always after feelings. You just want to feel good.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, think about the different areas of your life you want to improve. Write them all down, and then write out some intentions that illustrate what you are hoping to accomplish feeling-wise. Think of the bigger picture.<\/span><\/p>\n

For example, if you are hoping to improve your money situation, don’t write intentions for creating a certain amount of money, getting a raise,etc… think about what you want to feel. Some intentions may be to feel like you have more than you need, secure, that you can do what you want without worrying whether you can pay for it, that you feel at ease meeting your financial obligations,etc…<\/span><\/p>\n

If you want to change your job, think about what you would want to the work to make you feel like. Think about the type of environment you would enjoy working in.<\/span><\/p>\n

These general intentions will help you get to the core of what you are really after, and will activate less resistance because you are not focusing on specific outcomes that you probably don’t feel are fully possible for you right now.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are just focusing on the broader strokes, and in doing this, you open up the doors for these energies to start flowing to you. You open up the doors to specific manifestations that will produce these much desired feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

In Closing…<\/span><\/h2>\n

Like I have said many times before, law of attraction is an incredibly simple concept, but it can be a bit tricky at times to make things happen. Had we been raised to realize this is how reality works, and how powerful we are, manifesting would be easy peasy from the get-go<\/span><\/p>\n

But, most of us aren’t raised like that. The ‘big’ us that is just that pure positive energy, and a manifesting machine, is so powerful, our higher selves thought it would be a fun challenge to come into this form and forget what we are capable of, and go about rediscovering it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those of you that are finally seeing what’s what are emerging from this fog, a fog that is thick with limiting beliefs, fears and all other sorts of yuck.<\/span><\/p>\n

When we find ourselves in a position of a life overflowing with that which we don’t want, all of a sudden dropping all our shit is not likely to happen.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deciding we want massive change in various respects is a great start, but as for getting from where you are now to where you want to be, that can seem daunting. It just seems like there is so much that needs to happen, so much to ‘figure out.’<\/span><\/p>\n

I hope what I wrote here gave you something to chew on, and will help clear up some of the anxiety as to how to make such leaps, and how to focus your energy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Follow your intuition. Follow your feelings and see where they lead you.<\/span><\/p>\n

No matter what happens, remember every manifestation serves you. The obstacles show you are moving forward.<\/span><\/p>\n

Learn to cultivate patience..it is something that will serve you well in this journey.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you take what I said to heart, you will start seeing all sorts of great manifestations that will help carve out the path. You will start realizing things don’t need to change all at once to start feeling better.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your Turn…<\/span><\/h2>\n

What did you think of this post? Are you someone who is trying to manifest a major overhaul of your life? What resonated with you most here as far as your own journey? Do you have any tips on working with LOA when you are feeling like nothing is right and you want to change it all? Looking forward to your thoughts as always.<\/span><\/p>\n

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