{"id":1485,"date":"2014-12-05T07:45:13","date_gmt":"2014-12-05T12:45:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.livelifemadetoorder.com\/blog\/blog\/?p=1485"},"modified":"2021-08-02T06:44:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-02T06:44:10","slug":"law-attraction-helpful-hints","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.livelifemadetoorder.com\/blog\/law-attraction-helpful-hints\/","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction: 3 Helpful Hints to Step Things Up a Notch"},"content":{"rendered":"

So, another LOA post for ya kids…I have just really been feeling this content lately, and I know many of my core readers were drawn in by this topic in particular, so I hope you have been loving it. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I have just seen so many amazing changes in my own life since consciously working with my energy, and over the last few months, I have made some major shifts of my own (the f originally stuck when typing that, and sure glad I caught it as I am not the best proofreader at times), and feel I am entering a whole new level of my work, and life in general.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It is pretty exciting, and it is my hope that sharing my perspective and tips on the attracting process will allow people to create the same awesomeness in their own life. I know our brains can be really stubborn, and this can muddy up a process that is at its core, quite simple. So, onto my latest little LOA nuggets that I hope will make your work go more swimmingly, and get you through the rough patches.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Make Peace with the Process<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Awhile back in a post I wrote about personal development pitfalls<\/a>, I discussed the idea self-improvement is never something you finish\u2026there is no end point where some perfect version of yourself will spring forth. And by this, I do not mean you will always be battling something, or would never be able to feel quite satisfied with life. It is simply the fact that desire to grow, expand and better ourselves will always be there. As we change, our interests and focus will change. New things will come to the surface we will want to explore.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

There is a similar line of thinking when it comes to working with law of attraction. As you grow and change, you will want new things, and you may not be a match yet, so you\u2019ll have to work on becoming one. Resistance will still rear its head at times, and this is especially true as you begin to reach for bigger things, things you probably never thought possible for you before you discovered what is truly possible for you, and how freaking powerful you really are.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

As a human prone to emotions, and \u2018imperfection,\u2019 you may have some more deeply rooted issues and beliefs\u00a0 that will impact various areas of your experience, and will come to the surface at various times in your life. We are here to create all sorts of awesomeness, and that desire to create will always be there.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I know there is this hope that once you start working with LOA, everything will just fall into place effortlessly from here on out and everything you want will come without an ounce of effort in the mental realm..now, this is totally possible of course, but you may still be battling with your mind to various degrees depending on the nature of the manifestation , how important it is to you and the strength of the limiting beliefs standing in the way.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

But, while you may have to still contend with all of this as new creations pop into your mind, it doesn\u2019t have to be as painful as we sometimes make it. We can give into the process, and not resist all the \u2018yuck\u2019 as much. If we learn to accept that this is what will happen sometimes, it becomes much easier to deal with. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

The resistance becomes more subtle over time for the most part, and not as glaring, and in your face, because your trust and understanding has been growing over time. The more you manifest, the more confidence you have in your ability to bring into your experience that which isn\u2019t there yet. So, you are aware there are some obstacles, but you aren\u2019t as scared of them. You know they are serving you somehow, and you can overcome them.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Get Caught Up on What Everyone Else is Doing\u2026Do What Feels Right to You<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

We have a very troublesome tendency to constantly compare ourselves to others, and evaluate other people\u2019s actions and experiences when reflecting on our own. We look at the results people have gotten, and saw all the stuff they did to get it, and think we have to do all those same exact things, lest we won\u2019t find the same success.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

But, ultimately, we have no idea what path that person was on, what was motivating their actions, what beliefs they held, what they were working through and what have you.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

For example, some people are really action-oriented, and truly enjoy doing a whole bunch of stuff to get the results they are after\u2014it\u00a0<\/span><\/span>feels good<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/em>\u00a0to them to do all this, which is what led to the positive manifestations, not the specific actions taken. Now, if you are the type of person who is less action-oriented and ambitious (me raising my hand here), and try to emulate this same approach, your experience will be completely different because this\u00a0<\/span><\/span>won\u2019t<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/em>\u00a0make you feel good. It will feel more like forcing and manipulating, which throws you out of alignment, thus creating a block to what you want to manifest.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Then you have the people who hold the belief that success comes after a lot of backbreaking work, suffering and lots of stops and starts, and this was their exact experience\u2014you could certainly take that path as well, but it won\u2019t be very pleasant, and do you want to do a bunch of stuff that makes you feel like crap?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Our energy, and how we feel, lies at the core of everything in our experience. So long as we feel good with whatever approach we are taking, and our beliefs support getting what we want, regardless of what other people are doing in their own lives, we will get the results we want.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie..this is not always easy. I still struggle with it at times. This is the kind of thing that will pop up in various ways, and aspects of your life, and it will be a little mini-battle each time. Sometimes you\u2019ll give into the desire to act, no matter how shitty it makes you feel. It\u2019s okay..you are only human and your damn brain will fight us on this attraction thing with all its might, no matter how much proof you may have accumulated that this whole acting- from- inspiration- and- nothing- more- thing is the ticket.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

While there is a lot of value in learning about what others did to become successful, or get the very things you want for yourself, always keep in mind the idea of inspired action and resonance. Don’t do things that don’t feel good because someone else said that is what he did, and that means you have to do it too…when we do things from this type of space, we are just kind of interfering with the process, and while we may see some sort of result get squeezed out of this way of doing things, it comes more slowly and the process just feels a lot more painful.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Make Friends with Your Intuition and Start Heeding It <\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

If you really want to make you work with LOA easier, and up your trust in the amazing machinations of the Universe, make it a point to start listening to your intuition and acting from that space. You will be amazed at the things you observe. By following your intuition, you will line up with the tools, people, ideas and inspirations that will help you move towards what you want, and puts you in touch with solutions to your current predicaments.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was recently in Ubud, Bali, made particularly famous by the book and movie ‘Eat, Pray, Love,’ and for any of you unfamiliar with the area, it is a mecca for all things yoga, spirituality, health and the like. There are all sorts of practitioners performing a host of healing modalities. Many restaurants are full of pamphlets of people advertising their services (which I tend not to read very much), and one day I was sitting next to one of the stands with all these brochures, and just grabbed a few right in my eye line to browse while I waited for my breakfast in a place I had not visited previously, but was alerted to by a copy of their menu placed outside their organic garden, way out in the middle of the rice fields near our home.<\/span><\/p>\n

And there was one discussing a particular form of energy work that I had never heard of, but I found very intriguing. There was this strong pull to do it, and when I got home I called for an appointment. I was scheduled to leave Bali in a couple of days, and I hoped there would be an opening. The woman ended up having an opening for that Thursday and off I went.<\/span><\/p>\n

All I can say is whatever that woman did to me, I have felt a permanent shift in my energy, a clearing like I have never experienced before, and even though it has only been a little more than a week, I can tell it is here to stay. I was so amazed, I signed up for more sessions with a woman in NYC while I am in the area visiting family, and am taking a class to learn more about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Interestingly,that Thursday in question was Thanksgiving, and this woman, who is American and has lived in Bali for 12 years, celebrates the holiday every year with other Americans who live in the area, and this is the first Thanksgiving she has worked since she has been here. Coincidence? Of course not.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever ends up happening with my exploration of this path, it will without a doubt move me forward, it already has tremendously. Maybe I’ll keep working with it, and it will become a primary aspect of my personal development work, or maybe I will at some point decide it no longer resonates, will give thanks for the benefit it did provide, keep applying what I found useful and just move on from there.<\/span><\/p>\n

For those of your interested in what I did, you can learn more about it at AccessConsciousness.com<\/a>. I still don’t know too much about it myself, but what I experienced has me intrigued for sure. Now, would someone else experience this same thing if they did this work as well? Maybe, maybe not.<\/span><\/p>\n

The point of this story is just to follow your intuition and see where it takes you– you are feeling a nudge to do a particular thing for a reason, there is some benefit. You are being led towards something that is helpful for your journey personally. And on the flip side, when you intuitively don’t feel a pull towards taking a certain type of action, such as exploring a particular channel of ‘self-improvement’ work even though someone else said it was really helpful,for example, don’t do it. Different things work for different people. There is no one path, tool or whatever, that is a necessary component for our growth and happiness.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your intuition is a powerful tool in your attraction arsenal, so if you haven’t been busting it out on a regular basis, start doing so.<\/span><\/p>\n

In Closing…<\/span><\/h2>\n

So, start accepting the attraction process for what it is..you may always be doing some kind of work on lining up with a particular manifestation. It’s okay you aren’t perfect, or that your vibration is not squeaky clean. When examining other people, take away the tidbits that resonate with you, and discard the ones that don’t–remember there are infinite ways to reach the same destination, and one person’s path may be very different from yours. Do what feels right and resonant to you. Start tuning into your intuition and trusting it..no matter where it leads you, it is to your benefit, even if it is something ‘bad.’ Any obstacle is there to help you become a better match to whatever it is you want. <\/span><\/p>\n

As always, just work on doing what you can to feel good. Be patient and compassionate with yourself as you do this work. It truly isn’t as hard as it feels sometimes, but we have a lot of conditioning we need to strip away, and as we do that, our experience will begin to change. Good things can start happening almost immediately.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Your Turn…<\/span><\/h2>\n

What did you think of the post? Anything jump out at you in particular? Have you made peace with the process of attraction? Do you find yourself worrying too much about what other people have been doing and feeling pressure to do the same even if it doesn’t feel right? Are you good at following your intuition, and what results have you seen in your work with LOA?Looking forward to hearing your thoughts so we can have a nice chat.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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