{"id":9958,"date":"2021-07-30T07:45:42","date_gmt":"2021-07-30T07:45:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.livelifemadetoorder.com\/blog\/?page_id=9958"},"modified":"2025-04-02T13:34:11","modified_gmt":"2025-04-02T13:34:11","slug":"wanting-without-needing-how-sweet-it-is","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.livelifemadetoorder.com\/blog\/wanting-without-needing-how-sweet-it-is\/","title":{"rendered":"Wanting Without Needing How Sweet It Is"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t

Wanting Without Needing: How Sweet It Is<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n<\/svg>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t

If we have to get up and live in this world everyday, it\u2019s understandable we want to have certain things in our little corner of it\u2013money, relationships, good health, fulfilling work. There\u2019s NO REASON not to have them. We SHOULD have them.<\/p>

But as anyone who\u2019s been \u2018dabbling\u2019 in the law of attraction for any length of time knows, feeling like you \u2018need\u2019 these things to be happy, like you can\u2019t possibly feel better until they show up\u2013pain, pain, nothing but pain.<\/p>

If that pain is the primary fuel driving our conscious creation journey, we\u2019ll just create more pain,pain and nothing but pain! All we\u2019re focused on is what we don\u2019t have, and LOA 101\u2013we\u2019ll just continue to manifest a reality where we don\u2019t have it.<\/p>

All our \u2018energy work\u2019 is coming from a place of deep tension and resistance to our current circumstances and actually increases the pain, increases the \u2018need.\u2019 This work can have great value in its ability to help us activate beneficial energies, but it will \u2018work\u2019 a hell of a lot better when the energy of \u2018need\u2019 isn\u2019t motivating it.<\/p>

Detaching from what we want isn\u2019t about giving up on it. While your mind thinks the energy of \u2018need\u2019 is somehow helpful to the process, it\u2019s not. The Universe doesn\u2019t respond to \u2018need;\u2019 it won\u2019t throw you a bone because it sees how sad you are without a boyfriend. It just responds to our energy in a disinterested, dispassionate way.<\/p>

Unless we completely withdraw from worldly life, we\u2019re going to remain invested in the outside world; we\u2019re going to care about what our life looks like. We\u2019re going to want certain things, want certain experiences. We\u2019re here to create, we\u2019re here to do stuff.<\/p>

There is something to be said for the power of our desires, the necessity of the \u2018wanting.\u2019 We\u2019re putting out something into the Universe that gets the ball rolling on them materializing. This \u2018wanting\u2019 serves a purpose but the needing..again, not so much.<\/p>

None of us are probably going to stop \u2018wanting\u2019 anytime soon, and if this is the reality with which we\u2019re contending, we need to find a way to make this wanting less painful, because knowing what we know about energy, it\u2019s not helping matters in the slightest.<\/p>

I will help you understand where the need is coming from, how deeply dysfunctional your mind is. Once this comes to light, it \u00a0gets a lot easier to divest from all its chatter; you longer have such reverence for it, you no longer trust it implicitly as you have been doing this whole time.<\/p>

As you free yourself from your mind bullshit, your energy transforms in significant ways, often with minimal \u2018effort\u2019 on your part.<\/p>

Your primary problem is the energy of \u2018need\u2019 and all the mental nonsense from which it stems. It\u2019s not that you aren\u2019t being \u2018positive\u2019 enough; it\u2019s not that you were unclear about your wants; it\u2019s not that you\u2019re using the \u2018wrong\u2019 tools and techniques.<\/p>

It has nothing to do with anything you\u2019re \u2018doing.\u2019 It\u2019s all about what you\u2019re\u2019 being.\u2019 It\u2019s a good thing it\u2019s not an action-problem. It means there\u2019s nothing you need to learn, you don\u2019t have to worry about doing things \u2018right\u2019 or \u2018wrong.\u2019<\/p>

Once you drop the \u2018need\u2019 you\u2019ll see all sorts of movement in your life; when the stuff does show up, you\u2019ll enjoy it a hell of a lot more. And you\u2019ll get what you truly want pretty much immediately, which is to feel better.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n<\/svg>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t
Who This Series Is For<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t
Who This Series Is For<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t